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Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger149125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-41955661555656289482024-01-17T21:40:00.005-05:002024-01-17T21:51:12.294-05:00Embrace Life's Journey with "The Art of Living" Journal and Planner!<p style="text-align: left;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh139ezylpPhqL2RsaDJEmYt45F8OCEqGe576LEgIdlmf08sML_gvAAZdWNz8P-Rn6aVL_wpgmKLSepw3ButKP3n3SqxtccQTkp33Y43BWqOcUJW_BU9rN-LUdQ3gaCG0KPmgpNrzFK2JLdvB_JikelSIRlnPkGpv0PMIlUw2J4D6YSfhNKQF3QjK8MimUw/s4000/FY2PRtkcq9N.png" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2666" data-original-width="4000" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh139ezylpPhqL2RsaDJEmYt45F8OCEqGe576LEgIdlmf08sML_gvAAZdWNz8P-Rn6aVL_wpgmKLSepw3ButKP3n3SqxtccQTkp33Y43BWqOcUJW_BU9rN-LUdQ3gaCG0KPmgpNrzFK2JLdvB_JikelSIRlnPkGpv0PMIlUw2J4D6YSfhNKQF3QjK8MimUw/s16000/FY2PRtkcq9N.png" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://a.co/d/9cha2RJ" target="_blank">Amazon</a></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: inherit;"> Greetings, dear friends! It brings me joy to share that I have been continuously creating valuable content this month. Each of us faces the challenge of seeking balance and purpose in a world that is often chaotic. Fear not, for I present to you "The Art of Living: A Journey Where Life Happens for Me," a journal and planner by Melesia Robinson. This will serve as your trusted companion on the path to a more intentional and fulfilling life.</span><span><a name='more'></a></span><div><br /><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); font-size: 16px; white-space: pre-wrap;">The journal is not just a collection of pages; it's a carefully crafted space designed to guide you through your personal odyssey. With its thoughtfully structured layout, it provides the perfect canvas for your thoughts, dreams, and reflections. My unique approach ensures that this journal is more than just a planner – it's a partner in your journey.</span></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBNYxpbo6fevY4AYMhBAC4s2sTveDRFh-mA8eDzAGXGbou9KSzqZh8_U3-MNDex31C7ld2xLiDZtTxJhHxVvUGURdlFgp22MUfq-HHT7GVAvYcQYd13l0ywK6hUHhY-z4eHeT_zOVhA6SdqKQeKG2GzEcH5lPz99hcsirxTpP0dpDBs4JPZFENHWM7Q-Hl/s5020/planner.png" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3075" data-original-width="5020" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBNYxpbo6fevY4AYMhBAC4s2sTveDRFh-mA8eDzAGXGbou9KSzqZh8_U3-MNDex31C7ld2xLiDZtTxJhHxVvUGURdlFgp22MUfq-HHT7GVAvYcQYd13l0ywK6hUHhY-z4eHeT_zOVhA6SdqKQeKG2GzEcH5lPz99hcsirxTpP0dpDBs4JPZFENHWM7Q-Hl/s16000/planner.png" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://a.co/d/9cha2RJ" target="_blank">The Art Of Living</a></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;">"The Art of Living" isn't just about planning your days; it's about embracing them. With dedicated sections for mindfulness exercises and gratitude practice, this journal helps you appreciate the present moment and find joy in the little things. My insightful prompts encourage self-reflection, fostering a positive mindset that can transform your daily experience.</span></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;">We all have aspirations, but turning them into reality requires intentional planning. This journal empowers you to set clear, achievable goals and provides the structure to break them down into actionable steps. My goal-setting methodology is a game-changer, ensuring that you not only dream big but also take concrete steps toward your aspirations.</span></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;">Expressing yourself is a crucial aspect of personal growth. The journal offers creative spaces for doodling, sketching, and jotting down inspirations. I believe in the power of self-expression, and this journal becomes a canvas for your thoughts, ideas, and artistic inclinations.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); white-space: break-spaces;">By choosing this journal, you are taking an important step towards your personal growth and development. This is an investment in yourself that will benefit you in countless ways. So, don't hesitate to seize this opportunity and start your journey towards a better version of yourself.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); white-space: break-spaces;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;">Embark on a journey where each day is an opportunity for growth, self-discovery, and joy. "The Art of Living: A Journey where Life Happens for Me Journal and Planner" by Melesia Robinson is not just a product; it's an invitation to live life deliberately, with purpose and mindfulness. Make the choice to invest in yourself and witness the transformative power of intentional living. Order your journal today and start creating a life where every moment matters!</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">PS: I LOVE YOU!</span></b></p><h4 style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0px; position: relative; text-align: center;"><span style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Please check out my books <a href="https://www.amazon.com/SorryMelody-goodbye-limited-beliefs-choosing-ebook/dp/B09PJ1D5S2" style="color: black; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; transition: 0.2s ease-out;" target="_blank">#SorryMelody</a>, and <a href="https://a.co/d/9cha2RJ" target="_blank">The Art Of Living</a> available on Amazon.</span></span></h4><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><br /></p><div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important" style="color: #333333; font-feature-settings: normal; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-49655393512242196502024-01-03T18:20:00.002-05:002024-01-04T08:05:47.095-05:00Empower Your Year: 75 Affirmations to Ignite Positivity and Success in 2024<p> </p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgY68119B8iXe2_zvJtaGlvExsoNyli74K2JJz1h0T-BxmV22rTNgGJXmCVUQZN_R4bW8CCd3M1Q0BHD7gcgxhyphenhyphen5CwdoIeMaQhx2tVXHNIDkYwPJmGq3fawiFRPMRniH0CUE_7dYZImRB5NY_Tc4Zkh2YYuslztb6VtDJ_2QYS7CnW3hk43xHIgR0ic4O75/s4032/79342EE0-E654-47D5-8325-86D9B46E2B1A.jpeg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="2268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgY68119B8iXe2_zvJtaGlvExsoNyli74K2JJz1h0T-BxmV22rTNgGJXmCVUQZN_R4bW8CCd3M1Q0BHD7gcgxhyphenhyphen5CwdoIeMaQhx2tVXHNIDkYwPJmGq3fawiFRPMRniH0CUE_7dYZImRB5NY_Tc4Zkh2YYuslztb6VtDJ_2QYS7CnW3hk43xHIgR0ic4O75/s16000/79342EE0-E654-47D5-8325-86D9B46E2B1A.jpeg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Hoodie: <a href="Https://www.melesiarobinson.com " target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a> Shoes: <a href="https://www.balenciaga.com/en-us/hd-lace-up-sneaker--black-810856259.html?gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADlevksDpkmhq72BKWs9RSCliqsl4&gclid=Cj0KCQiAhc-sBhCEARIsAOVwHuStqGBXee3WDehnTgDwnsvDLJBxv02JmYeuVwWZjrBnX7nCuMt7G2saApz6EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds" target="_blank">Balenciaga Crocs </a>Jacket: <a href="https://www.mackage.com/" target="_blank">Mackage </a></td></tr></tbody></table><span><a name='more'></a></span>Hey there, it's me again – back like I never left! It's more than just vibes. I'm sharing the keys to my growth journey. Subscribing? Well, that's the smart move, trust me. Don't miss out on the goodness, folks!<div><br /></div><div>I’m dropping 75 affirmations that could transform your daily grind! Speak them, write them, or ignore them – no judgments here. It's all about elevating your vibe. Let's dive in and choose your affirmation adventure!</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDG57VZvoIWg0L2-b597VKiLu3AfUs10QjNe8-GpXGmeiuxurWnG3n3E9ia1Z_H9Ytnhm0U-1cpvsEjYpcIiHKW1a6h7ROf_Z3K1FMszuTWBNAWQVO0p4GdJqjZ46RdBOy6z1btAuJvDPNPH2W87smeJnrRHso_Q-JKOLHw4Sd8B3q6ZQlaYgLFmvNoyh1/s4032/CC4A0E43-960B-4B68-BC86-C8A95575ED4B%202.JPEG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="2268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDG57VZvoIWg0L2-b597VKiLu3AfUs10QjNe8-GpXGmeiuxurWnG3n3E9ia1Z_H9Ytnhm0U-1cpvsEjYpcIiHKW1a6h7ROf_Z3K1FMszuTWBNAWQVO0p4GdJqjZ46RdBOy6z1btAuJvDPNPH2W87smeJnrRHso_Q-JKOLHw4Sd8B3q6ZQlaYgLFmvNoyh1/s16000/CC4A0E43-960B-4B68-BC86-C8A95575ED4B%202.JPEG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Let's dive in.... </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">1. I am worthy of love and respect.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">2. I am capable.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">3. I am deserving of rest and relaxation.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">4. I choose to prioritize my own needs.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">5. I am beautiful inside and out.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">6. I am enough just as I am.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">7. I am worthy of success and happiness.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">8. I am capable of achieving my goals.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">9. I am grateful for all that I have.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">10. I am proud of who I am and where I come from.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">11. I am surrounded by love and positive energy.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">12. I am confident in my abilities.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">13. I trust my intuition and inner wisdom.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">14. I am deserving of forgiveness and compassion.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">15. I choose to let go of negative thoughts and emotions. </p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">16. I am worthy of joy and laughter.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">17. I am deserving of good health and well-being.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">18. I am grateful for my body and all that it does for me.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">19. I am capable of overcoming any obstacle.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">20. I am surrounded by abundance and prosperity.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">21. I am capable of creating a life that is filled with joy, love, and meaning.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">22. I am worthy of respect and admiration.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">23. I am deserving of peace and tranquility.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">24. I choose to focus on my own growth and development.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">25. I am confident in my ability to make decisions for myself.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">26. I am grateful for the support and love of my friends and family.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: left;">27. I am capable of creating a life that brings me joy and fulfillment.</p></div><div><br /></div>Wow. I know it's a lot. I'm already exhausted. <div><br /></div><div><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">28. I am deserving of love and affection.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">29. I am worthy of success in all areas of my life.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">30. I am confident in my ability to handle challenges.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">31. I trust myself to make the right choices for my life.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">32.I am grateful for the opportunities that come my way.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">33. I am capable of achieving my dreams and aspirations.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">34. I am deserving of respect and admiration from others.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">35. I choose to surround myself with positive and uplifting energy.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">36. I am confident in my ability to create a life that aligns with my values.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">37. I trust that everything happens for a reason and for my highest good.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">38. I am grateful for the blessings in my life.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">39. I am capable of overcoming any fear or self-doubt.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">40. I am worthy of a life filled with love, joy, and abundance.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">41. I am confident in my ability to handle any situation that comes my way.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">42. I trust that the universe is conspiring in my favor.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">43. I am grateful for the lessons that life has taught me.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">44. I am capable of making a positive impact on the world.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">45. I am deserving of happiness and fulfillment.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">46. I choose to focus on the present moment and appreciate all that I have.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">47. I am confident in my ability to achieve my goals and dreams.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">48. I trust that I am exactly where I need to be in this moment.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">49. I am grateful for the love and support of my community.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">50. I am capable of using my strengths and talents to make a difference in the world.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">51. I am worthy of respect and dignity.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">52. I am deserving of success and recognition for my accomplishments.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">53. I choose to let go of any limiting beliefs that hold me back.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">54. I am confident in my ability to learn and grow from my experiences.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">55. I trust that the universe will provide me with everything I need.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">56. I am grateful for the beauty and wonder of the world around me.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">57. I am capable of creating a life that aligns with my values and passions.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">58. I am deserving of all the good things that life has to offer.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">59. I choose to focus on my own happiness and well-being.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">60. I am confident in my ability to face any challenge with grace and resilience.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><br /></p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Take a break you deserve it! </p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><br /></p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">61. I trust that my journey is unfolding exactly as it should.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">62. I am grateful for the opportunity to learn and grow each day.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">63. I am capable of achieving my wildest dreams and aspirations.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">64. I am worthy of love and respect from myself and others.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">65. I am deserving of a life filled with purpose and meaning.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">66. I choose to embrace my uniqueness and individuality.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">67. I am confident in my ability to create a life that brings me joy and fulfillment.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">68. I trust that everything will work out for my highest good.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">69. I am grateful for the love and support of my ancestors.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">70. I am capable of creating a legacy that will inspire future generations.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">71. I am deserving of a life filled with abundance and prosperity. I choose to let go of any negative self-talk and embrace my worthiness.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">72. I am confident in my ability to create positive change in the world.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">74. I trust that my path is unfolding in perfect timing.</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">75. I am grateful for the opportunity to make a difference in the world.</p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Now, if you want my technique on how to use these to manifest the things you desire you can book a one-on-one session with me,<a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com/product-page/coaching-session" target="_blank"> HERE</a>.</p>
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<p style="font-family: ".Apple Color Emoji UI"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-emoji: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><div><br /></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Please note that every picture taken on my blog belongs to me, unless otherwise stated. These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-91906825815784153872024-01-02T00:04:00.005-05:002024-01-02T00:17:35.446-05:00Embracing the New Year: Navigating the Pressure with Grace<p></p><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIo986_U2fHDzgOGJo5vcv-CoN6lLxb6jyyO3N8S9ROBeCdXp6VHewAU__hblLkrUWqSMOO1imbhLJGI1n5LwJfVwaQVQ1UK8XHR_LTIeE1sFMYKw3Lii_ZJ2SsJa5Uqu4k0mBndH766l_vvCx6rqYQHPLmtExbA4oNbMBErwaK_pIwpISOANWRk3zhaHE/s2096/IMG_6968.JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2096" data-original-width="1179" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIo986_U2fHDzgOGJo5vcv-CoN6lLxb6jyyO3N8S9ROBeCdXp6VHewAU__hblLkrUWqSMOO1imbhLJGI1n5LwJfVwaQVQ1UK8XHR_LTIeE1sFMYKw3Lii_ZJ2SsJa5Uqu4k0mBndH766l_vvCx6rqYQHPLmtExbA4oNbMBErwaK_pIwpISOANWRk3zhaHE/s16000/IMG_6968.JPG" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dress: <a href="http://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a> Shoes: <a href="https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/aquazzura-gatsby-crystal-embellished-slingback-sandals-0400015183456.html?dwvar_0400015183456_color=SILVER" target="_blank">Saks</a><br /><span face="Inter, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-size: 14px; text-align: left; white-space: break-spaces;"><span><a name='more'></a></span><div style="text-align: left;">Hello to my readers! I won't make any promises this year; I'll just upload a post when I feel called to. What an amazing year it has been! I am beyond grateful for all of God's grace. It's an amazing feeling when all that you are working towards starts to unveil. But if I'm honest, the feeling of what's next still lingers. Last year, I decided not to create a vision board. Instead, I wrote out all the things I would like to manifest. I have a method down to a science of manifesting the things that I desire, and it's working like a charm. As I see all that I desire unfold, I am so grateful, but I can't help but feel the space of what's next.</div></span></td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div style="text-align: left;"><span face="Inter, sans-serif" style="caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-size: 14px; white-space: break-spaces;"><br /></span></div><span style="background-color: white;"><div style="caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-family: Inter, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; text-align: left; white-space: break-spaces;">I realized that I had been so consumed by my daily routine that I had not taken the time to reflect on all that I had achieved. However, my hard work and determination paid off when I was offered the opportunity to collaborate with a phone company, which was a major milestone in my journey. I was ecstatic and grateful for the chance to work with such a reputable company. However, despite my excitement, I was also feeling extremely burnt out and overwhelmed. All the hard work and effort I had put in had taken a toll on me. I remember sitting in my room, weeping, and thanking God for the experience. It was a moment of vulnerability that allowed me to embrace my emotions and express gratitude for the opportunity. Looking back, I realized that this experience taught me the importance of taking a step back and reflecting on my journey. It was a powerful reminder that, although the road may be difficult, hard work and perseverance will ultimately pay off in the end.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><span face="Inter, sans-serif" style="caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-size: 14px; white-space: break-spaces;"><br /></span></div><span face="Inter, sans-serif" style="caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-size: 14px; white-space: break-spaces;"><div style="text-align: left;">Now that we have a fresh start, as some would call it, I am feeling a bit overwhelmed with the pressure of achieving everything I would like to in the upcoming year. I decided to share this with all of you in hopes of helping anyone else feeling the same pressure of the New Year.</div></span><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-family: Inter, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; white-space: break-spaces;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHfKq0ZckPgjZvZE8yOO8N_vLaGyJB21RU5Lar3Ecw5QQLBJ29gCSEQGfBM_LZZqC3YN_gwsSxzBL6a037u2zAQGw0xmYtX0xIWsJTUZfm2MMjDXZbhLYR8bmWJZBvijXCZ3A_lqIUaoRV38sZF1PiERdVwUAftUbJ56XfC1yzO0VIf6XKFziIf_7xnVCU/s3024/IMG_6970.JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="2016" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHfKq0ZckPgjZvZE8yOO8N_vLaGyJB21RU5Lar3Ecw5QQLBJ29gCSEQGfBM_LZZqC3YN_gwsSxzBL6a037u2zAQGw0xmYtX0xIWsJTUZfm2MMjDXZbhLYR8bmWJZBvijXCZ3A_lqIUaoRV38sZF1PiERdVwUAftUbJ56XfC1yzO0VIf6XKFziIf_7xnVCU/s16000/IMG_6970.JPG" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: justify;">Dress: <a href="http://melesiarobinson.com/" target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a> Shoes: <a href="https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/aquazzura-gatsby-crystal-embellished-slingback-sandals-0400015183456.html?dwvar_0400015183456_color=SILVER" target="_blank">Saks </a></td></tr></tbody></table><span face="Inter, sans-serif" style="caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-size: 14px; white-space: break-spaces;">As the clock strikes midnight and the calendar turns a new leaf, the promise of a fresh start brings with it a unique set of challenges. The pressure of New Year's resolutions and societal expectations can cast a shadow on the excitement of a new beginning. It's essential to approach this time with a mindset of self-compassion and resilience.
Here are some ways to cope with the pressure of the New Year:
1. Setting Realistic Intentions: Rather than setting unrealistic resolutions, establish achievable goals that will lead to meaningful change. Remember, progress is often made through small, consistent steps. By doing this, you can ease the pressure and allow yourself room for growth and self-discovery.
2. Prioritizing Well-being: In the hustle and bustle of chasing goals, it's easy to overlook personal well-being. Coping with the pressure of the New Year requires a conscious effort to prioritize self-care. Whether it's taking moments for mindfulness, enjoying hobbies, or simply resting, investing in your mental and physical health is a powerful antidote to the stress that may accompany the turning of the calendar.
3. Navigating Setbacks: The journey of the New Year is seldom a linear progression. Setbacks are an inevitable part of growth, and it's crucial to approach them with resilience and a positive mindset. Rather than viewing obstacles as roadblocks, see them as opportunities for learning and refinement. Each detour is a chance to reassess, readjust, and continue forward with newfound wisdom.
4. Celebrating Small Victories: Amidst the pressure to achieve grand milestones, don't underestimate the significance of small victories. Every step taken towards your aspirations, no matter how modest, deserves celebration. By acknowledging and appreciating the progress made, you cultivate a positive mindset that propels you forward, making the journey more fulfilling.
5. Embracing Authenticity: In a world filled with external expectations, it's crucial to stay true to yourself. Embrace your authenticity and define success on your terms. The New Year is an opportunity to express your unique narrative, unfettered by societal norms. By aligning your goals with your values, you create a path that resonates with your individuality.
As the New Year unfolds, let it be a canvas for self-discovery and growth. By setting realistic intentions, prioritizing well-being, navigating setbacks with resilience, celebrating small victories, and embracing authenticity, you can navigate the pressure with grace and embark on a journey that is uniquely yours. Remember, the beauty of the New Year lies not in the destination but in the transformative process of the journey itself.</span></span><div><span style="color: #161719;"><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); font-size: 14px; white-space: break-spaces;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #161719;"><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); font-size: 14px; white-space: break-spaces;">Amazing photos by: <a href="http://instagram.com/akloptics" target="_blank">Akloptics</a><br /></span></span><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span face="Inter, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(22, 23, 25); color: #161719; font-size: 14px; white-space: break-spaces;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-feature-settings: normal; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-40580876025455558672023-05-28T16:35:00.003-04:002023-05-28T16:36:04.956-04:00SHIFTING FROM SURVIVAL MODE TO THRIVING MODE<div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeHEYiDpg65GDqk_nUPsPE7xbGldqiOcgX2-OhKn0iUqqsXN50PvH0_2eD0lZFMVpehEUI0x6Def0k8wSzuEQs-hJr6LCD959d7Hk4N4JlcaV3ONJeXYhuNHO6YevYukO4OiflqqMpcEuUPImvcYRuZSAGegq6n6MDhgH_7J0tExlytC8fuQVveyfIlg/s2994/IMG_6268.HEIC" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2994" data-original-width="1684" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeHEYiDpg65GDqk_nUPsPE7xbGldqiOcgX2-OhKn0iUqqsXN50PvH0_2eD0lZFMVpehEUI0x6Def0k8wSzuEQs-hJr6LCD959d7Hk4N4JlcaV3ONJeXYhuNHO6YevYukO4OiflqqMpcEuUPImvcYRuZSAGegq6n6MDhgH_7J0tExlytC8fuQVveyfIlg/s16000/IMG_6268.HEIC" /></a></div><span><a name='more'></a></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Greetings Earthlings, </span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Lately, life has been so good to me. <span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; display: inline;">It's great when life brings us positive experiences and blessings. I have been embracing the good times and it is a source of joy and fulfillment. It's important to appreciate and savor these moments. Take the time to reflect on what is making life so good and express gratitude for those things. Cherish the positive experiences and continue to nurture the aspects of your life that are bringing you happiness and fulfillment. And remember, life can have ups and downs, so enjoy and </span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; display: inline;">appreciate the good times while they're here. </span></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; display: inline; font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; display: inline;">I love that I’m embracing my soft girl era. It was a choice I made to transition</span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; display: inline;"> from merely getting by to truly flourishing. This doesn’t mean I don’t have off days, it just means I’m showing up even on those days. I’m making the effort to dig deep within and acknowledge the suck. All while being grateful, because I know the higher power said in </span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.3); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); display: inline;"><font color="#000000" face="sans-serif" size="3">Jeremiah 29:11 </font></span></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><blockquote style="font-size: large;"><b>“I have plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." </b></blockquote><p><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I believe that this is so in my heart. If I’m having a moment, I try to find what God wants me to know or learn. It’s a teachable moment for me and also to be of service to others. </span></span></p></span></div><div><div style="text-align: left;"><font color="#000000" face="inherit" size="3"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.3); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><span style="display: inline;">We got free tickets to catch the NYCFC vs Philadelphia match and had a ball. </span></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.3); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); display: inline;">Attending a live sporting event is so thrilling, it's an excellent opportunity to support your favorite team, enjoy the atmosphere, and witness some exciting moments on the field. We definitely soaked up the energy from the crowd, cheering their team. It’s such a unique experience being part of the live sports action. We had a fantastic time at the match!</span></span></font></div></div><div style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiS0IZIkPnDWF00apj6f_DYDgKms-uzWPnNfkZJAsE6d9XSMEJxBHsJd6Q25hsYuVl_ZmTTfUrVDkcj_GpCGsTSL7M9Pbynyi-qIeSGWoJ58NOUUDw8XLTFTu8gfL04m3aa9TXAKe6kXV8l5gh3a-PdfEiue_C7xZVIoIjgsl8AvYBGrFUISSKmpTm1qA/s4032/FullSizeRender.HEIC" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="2268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiS0IZIkPnDWF00apj6f_DYDgKms-uzWPnNfkZJAsE6d9XSMEJxBHsJd6Q25hsYuVl_ZmTTfUrVDkcj_GpCGsTSL7M9Pbynyi-qIeSGWoJ58NOUUDw8XLTFTu8gfL04m3aa9TXAKe6kXV8l5gh3a-PdfEiue_C7xZVIoIjgsl8AvYBGrFUISSKmpTm1qA/s16000/FullSizeRender.HEIC" /></a></div></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; display: inline; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; display: inline;">After leaving the match I was inspired to write this post. I couldn't help but feel so grateful to have the experience we had. I was inspired to share this to get those that are struggling to align with their highest good. </span><span>Here are a few suggestions to help you on your journey:</span></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">1. Pray: It doesn't take much to have a relationship with the higher power (God) or whatever your practice is. Take some time out of your day to acknowledge and build with the creator. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">2. Set clear goals: Identify what you want to achieve and create actionable steps towards those goals. Break them down into smaller tasks to make them more manageable and track your progress along the way.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">3. Prioritize self-care: Take care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Make time for activities that bring you joy, practice mindfulness or meditation, exercise regularly, and ensure you get enough restorative sleep.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">4. Cultivate a positive mindset: Shift your focus towards gratitude and positivity. Practice affirmations, surround yourself with supportive and uplifting people, and challenge negative thoughts by reframing them into more positive perspectives.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">5. Embrace learning and personal growth: Seek opportunities to expand your knowledge and develop new skills. This could include reading books, taking courses, attending workshops, or pursuing hobbies stimulating your mind and interests.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">6. Build a supportive network: Surround yourself with inspiring and encouraging people. Seek out mentors, join communities with similar interests, and collaborate with individuals who can provide guidance and support along your path to thriving.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">7. Take calculated risks: Step outside of your comfort zone and embrace new opportunities. Pushing yourself to try new things can lead to personal and professional growth, helping you unlock your full potential.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">Remember, transitioning to thriving mode is a process that takes time and effort. Be patient with yourself, celebrate your progress, and don't hesitate to seek support when needed. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">Good things happen to those who believe they deserve good things. </span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYnzfGdDl8W15ulL7wSzMOm5bYWo52eX7qZzLj3cLW7SMXLf3MNbm_J0Bghq1BR5tnscqJW2jw5jHoSVcs488WHzFcJqj-gC8GqFh8Tuwso7Mt3lvtTZnrV1ujXbvVsDvaOnvoT93eygWE8N6jMNi5plS69LwPKtKkNw9IdG2C4zuHnTp1hvjgVr3SEg/s2921/IMG_6276.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2921" data-original-width="1643" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYnzfGdDl8W15ulL7wSzMOm5bYWo52eX7qZzLj3cLW7SMXLf3MNbm_J0Bghq1BR5tnscqJW2jw5jHoSVcs488WHzFcJqj-gC8GqFh8Tuwso7Mt3lvtTZnrV1ujXbvVsDvaOnvoT93eygWE8N6jMNi5plS69LwPKtKkNw9IdG2C4zuHnTp1hvjgVr3SEg/s16000/IMG_6276.HEIC" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dress: Zara Shoes: Aldo <span style="text-align: start;">Astara Strappy flat sandals </span>Bag: Tory Burch<br /><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">I purchased these "Astara Strappy flat sandals" from Aldo for my trip to Bali. This is the worst $85 I have ever spent on shoes. It would have been great if I were able to return them since the straps do not stay tied, they are literally a tripping hazard. <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="5f181895-e048-46e9-ae5e-005c7df6d934">It was my intention to see if they would be suitable for the match.</wt-ignore> <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="77a7a3f2-71c2-4c9c-bded-35b97af18cba">I got out of the car to take a few pictures when the straps fell off.</wt-ignore> I was beyond annoyed, but happy I had backup in the car. Wearing heels to a match wasn't part of the plan, but it all worked out. </span></div><p class="pb-2" data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="3babf2a7-59a8-4eae-88a7-542fb672bc34" style="text-align: start;"><br /></p><p class="pb-2" data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="3babf2a7-59a8-4eae-88a7-542fb672bc34" style="text-align: start;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Happy Healing!</b></span></p><p class="pb-2" data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="3babf2a7-59a8-4eae-88a7-542fb672bc34" style="text-align: start;"><br /></p></td></tr></tbody></table><div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-2791920971814725948" itemprop="description articleBody" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 700px;"><div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-6765399335994010247" itemprop="description articleBody" style="font-size: 13.2px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 700px;"><div style="font-size: 13.2px;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-feature-settings: normal !important; font-kerning: auto !important; font-optical-sizing: auto !important; font-size-adjust: none !important; font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal !important; font-variant-east-asian: normal !important; font-variant-ligatures: normal !important; font-variant-numeric: normal !important; font-variant-position: normal !important; font-variation-settings: normal !important; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">PS: I LOVE YOU!</span></b></p><h4 style="font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0px; position: relative; text-align: center;"><span style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Please check out my book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/SorryMelody-goodbye-limited-beliefs-choosing-ebook/dp/B09PJ1D5S2" style="color: black; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-19751017656044654402023-04-21T11:36:00.004-04:002023-04-21T11:36:39.967-04:00HAPPINESS IS IN THE MOMENTS <p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4ea51059-9173-457a-9c0e-3c7f2b32c3e1"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhowyWkDlatM2uzmhquWR7Lv-Ekx_DQHLpyRwzwt0GJSn9fMqkbQAGy__UG3NtzGcfX3-ZNNzDLXVwEZoh_Mmq_JYkxg7EQkRM2ykyE30ZW-e-hGGD5HaGqb6kKbO2XX1NPIte0pF_AeCkU1-4vEJW0Y3ptLh2b-oq7ibbTUeoYsjkgWLA6Rxe1Ilb26Q/s1920/Snapshot_2023-04-04-20.54.25.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1920" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhowyWkDlatM2uzmhquWR7Lv-Ekx_DQHLpyRwzwt0GJSn9fMqkbQAGy__UG3NtzGcfX3-ZNNzDLXVwEZoh_Mmq_JYkxg7EQkRM2ykyE30ZW-e-hGGD5HaGqb6kKbO2XX1NPIte0pF_AeCkU1-4vEJW0Y3ptLh2b-oq7ibbTUeoYsjkgWLA6Rxe1Ilb26Q/s16000/Snapshot_2023-04-04-20.54.25.JPG" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">While in Bali, Indonesia </td></tr></tbody></table><wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="92cd01c2-8d03-426b-96f8-8622a78e9c09"><br /></wt-ignore></span><span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4ea51059-9173-457a-9c0e-3c7f2b32c3e1" style="text-align: center;">Heyyyy, Happy Taurus Season! Happy reading!</p><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4ea51059-9173-457a-9c0e-3c7f2b32c3e1"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="92cd01c2-8d03-426b-96f8-8622a78e9c09">Many</wt-ignore> of <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="82ada2e8-102c-4e70-b5d4-5f4dcb078518">us</wt-ignore> first experiences of happiness were seen on television shows, in movies, or read about it in books. Media plays a big role in shaping our <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-dismissed" uuid="802e4af4-0f66-4095-b5ee-6ced9fe1e0aa">perceptions of happiness.</wt-ignore> We often <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-dismissed" uuid="080cdfec-3cb3-4472-94f2-1b377cfba26c">see depictions of happy</wt-ignore> endings in movies, TV shows, and books where characters overcome obstacles and find happiness. These depictions can create certain expectations and standards for what happiness should look like <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="928a05b8-15d0-472d-8421-a1f83205384f">and influence</wt-ignore> our own pursuit of happiness. These depictions are often exaggerated or simplified <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="ede56086-d2e0-467b-a426-c6a8c205245a">for storytelling,</wt-ignore> and may not <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="c354de59-9964-49a3-8a75-de156927879d">reflect real-life</wt-ignore> experiences. Everyone's path to happiness is different, and what works for one person may not work for another.</span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b927e279-686a-46d9-9b57-ea466d043d60"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Ultimately, it's up to us as individuals to define what happiness means to <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-light hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="831d574a-8f0b-4449-9950-3398b9189d33" data-testid="issue-underline:us. We can">us and to</span> pursue it in a way that feels authentic and meaningful.</span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="7de51bb5-76f4-4602-91bb-cfb79dd4f538"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I don't mean to <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="7159d1e8-26f5-46b5-80f4-c71adcf51acc">brag, but</wt-ignore> I have it <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="086ee1ee-0e68-4014-bbb8-d7093f955edd">all:</wt-ignore> <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="70234527-179a-430d-a239-bfb419cbc0e1">I</wt-ignore> have the husband, the newly <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="11955a89-e31a-4a67-add5-a4f35aa52b47">built</wt-ignore> house, the luxury car, the healthy and <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-error-light hover:bg-error-lightest" data-issueid="98d27bf6-ecd8-47d4-92aa-e3488b227a2a" data-testid="issue-underline:flying">fly</span> kids, and the popular <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="34079cfe-bf23-4c81-b6e8-7d8196fac471">French</wt-ignore> bulldog. This was my life until <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="09ac41b0-0013-4fa9-9c87-8838fddd0c0d">2018, and the</wt-ignore> thought never occurred to me whether I was happy <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="7bb42183-f7e1-4e66-8881-64ebdb1d74af">or content.</wt-ignore> It's common to <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-dismissed" uuid="9ef08cb7-9c60-4be2-9405-dafe7677c2b5">go</wt-ignore> through periods in life where we <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="83d4673d-7ea8-48cc-bf61-af3e0ea94a23">are uncertain</wt-ignore> and not sure if we're happy or content. Sometimes, we get so caught up in our day-to-day activities and responsibilities that we <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="6e4bc07d-eaac-4f8b-af36-34678dbf3f70">don't reflect</wt-ignore> on our <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="c26425df-26cf-408d-87fc-7ca6761ee1d6">overall well-being.</wt-ignore> It would have been safe for anyone to say that I was the true <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="07337ff6-2ae0-4cbe-88d5-c763ebffd0d6">definition</wt-ignore> of the American dream. I can't <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="cd3dbb95-31bd-4dbe-8302-6005f8295ada">say I</wt-ignore> <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="72ebe13c-a050-47a3-8a72-5422b8f7583a">was miserable</wt-ignore> and hated <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="91fafe6d-5342-42c6-a16d-2780aad3589d">life, but something was missing. L</wt-ignore>ife threw me a <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="cf5c1a2e-c65c-4208-8693-f8cd508009ec">curveball to</wt-ignore> get me to look within and that's exactly what I did. Since then I have grown so much and <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="dea26762-edda-47af-b2f2-9ae21efbdc09">learned</wt-ignore> many <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="7b9db164-af80-42c1-96fa-3799610b5453">understandings</wt-ignore> of <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="edb9dcb6-34cd-491c-840e-0324cbc90c68">myself</wt-ignore> and what happiness really feels and looks like for me. </span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="f786a66b-b5fc-4f86-9420-0a5105300eea"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Happiness is an emotion, and like all emotions, it comes and <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-dismissed" uuid="1e1f5f10-4561-424e-8dc7-10a14dba1b82">goes.</wt-ignore> It's normal to experience a range of emotions throughout life, including happiness, sadness, anger, and everything in between.</span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="0de82837-9a84-48b1-821f-0a4ea4e2c968"><span style="font-family: inherit;">One of the challenges <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-dismissed" uuid="ea3dfc29-72d2-478d-977d-e39fbaec2194">with the pursuit of happiness</wt-ignore> is that we often expect it to be a permanent state of being. We may feel disappointed or frustrated when we don't feel happy all the time or when our happiness fades. Happiness is not a destination or a final <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="aedcff30-8801-4c3f-becf-a03d6f456dd4">destination. Instead, it is</wt-ignore> a journey that requires ongoing effort and attention. It is not a one-size-fits-all experience. What brings happiness to one person may not bring happiness to another. Therefore, it's <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-dismissed" uuid="3415f1c6-bba9-4c25-a64a-d5d599ff2c15">important</wt-ignore> to explore what happiness means to you personally. The other day I was in the shower washing my hair and for the first time, I was present <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="cfe1a57d-ae6e-4feb-b98a-52cd83eaffe0">and filled</wt-ignore> with joy and happiness. That's when it hit me that I had it all <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="97463e10-8bf5-4fa2-a1d2-9cf735b9acf8">wrong.</wt-ignore> I <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="cc6da172-1040-45a6-9045-b3b262f0d1ca">realized</wt-ignore> that happiness is in the <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="d52a446b-b85b-4dcd-aab0-80e10f08546c">smallest moments</wt-ignore> <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="59213206-e087-4f04-ab8d-75da0dd6c6f1">and in the</wt-ignore> big <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="4633339b-64ec-4342-92f3-3c741c28a341">moments.</wt-ignore> Happiness is also having my kids greet me at the door when I get <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="4ddd743b-4624-4d7a-bb99-728dcc76515f">home. It is</wt-ignore> having a solo concert in my car, or linking up with my friends to do hoodrat things. </span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="f038acfc-f70d-47b0-adfc-ea9ffc9b1514"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Happiness isn't a permanent state of <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="efd7b5bf-9f6b-496a-bebf-a73f4e746897">being. Everyone's</wt-ignore> path to happiness is <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="dcc93108-b0d3-4a79-bd32-4559f391738e">unique. You</wt-ignore> might not find <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="3c30f927-df19-4bde-957f-6fd5918196d6">fulfillment</wt-ignore> in <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-light hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="af09dd3e-9d8d-45bc-8a18-65722cd83f54" data-testid="issue-underline:my">the moments I find</span> happiness. It is <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-light hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="92ebe871-939a-44b5-81af-1fc31718b509" data-testid="issue-underline:imperative">important</span> <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-light hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="41122bb2-27ce-49be-abe1-c960afe4eb54" data-testid="issue-underline:to work">to do the work</span> on yourself, be present, and feel the <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-light hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="5fccaaf3-a02e-49b7-b0b2-0186da6d1da7" data-testid="issue-underline:memorable">great</span> <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-light hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="26b099b4-fbbb-402d-8d91-6b421b01a294" data-testid="issue-underline:moments life">moments that life</span> gives you. </span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="f038acfc-f70d-47b0-adfc-ea9ffc9b1514"><span style="caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); color: #374151; font-size: 16px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Happiness is something that we all strive for, but it can be elusive and hard to define. However, research has shown that happiness is not just a fleeting feeling, but a state of being that we can cultivate and maintain over time. In this blog post, we'll explore some of the science-backed ways to increase happiness in our lives.</span></span></p><ol style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); color: #374151; counter-reset: item 0; display: flex; flex-direction: column; font-size: 16px; list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: initial; margin: 1.25em 0px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 1rem; white-space: pre-wrap;"><li style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-left: 0.375em;"><p style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Cultivate gratitude - Practicing gratitude has been shown to have a positive impact on our well-being. Take some time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for, whether it's a kind gesture from a friend or a beautiful sunset. This can help shift your focus from what's lacking to what you have, leading to increased feelings of happiness and contentment.</span></p></li><li style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-left: 0.375em;"><p style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Find purpose and meaning - Having a sense of purpose and meaning in our lives can contribute to our overall happiness. Think about what gives you a sense of fulfillment and try to incorporate more of that into your life, whether it's volunteering, pursuing a hobby, or making a career change.</span></p></li><li style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-left: 0.375em;"><p style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Take care of your body - Our physical health is closely linked to our mental health. Make sure to get enough sleep, eat a healthy diet, and exercise regularly. Even small changes, such as taking a daily walk or practicing deep breathing exercises, can have a significant impact on our happiness and well-being.</span></p></li><li style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding-left: 0.375em;"><p style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Practice mindfulness - Mindfulness is the practice of being present and fully engaged in the moment. This can help reduce stress and increase feelings of happiness and contentment. Try incorporating mindfulness into your daily routine through activities such as meditation, yoga, or simply taking a few moments to pause and focus on your breath.</span></p></li></ol><p style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); color: #374151; font-size: 16px; margin: 1.25em 0px 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Happiness is a state of being that we can cultivate and maintain through intentional practices and behaviors. By focusing on gratitude, social connections, purpose and meaning, physical health, and mindfulness, you can increase your overall sense of happiness and well-being.</span></p><p style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); color: #374151; font-size: 16px; margin: 1.25em 0px 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></p><p style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(59,130,246,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; border: 0px solid rgb(217, 217, 227); box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(55, 65, 81); color: #374151; font-size: 16px; margin: 1.25em 0px 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I love this for all my readers, go find happiness and come back to tell me about it. I'm looking forward to reading your stories. </span></p><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-2791920971814725948" itemprop="description articleBody" style="font-size: 13.2px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 700px;"><div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-6765399335994010247" itemprop="description articleBody" style="font-size: 13.2px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 700px;"><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"><br /></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13.2px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">PS: I LOVE YOU!</span></b></p><h4 style="font-size: 13.2px; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-27919209718147259482023-03-06T19:04:00.008-05:002023-03-06T19:06:19.791-05:00The Importance of Prioritizing Self-Care: A Guide for Busy Professionals<p><span style="background-color: white;"></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiejk7hmS2ZWg8YgacFigGf-snHmjigKK0IAuNT4g6wpRdkT29hZe5Cy328rtiynXKWJJZ_aAmUEypGrimaAgdcplSBNXQT1tII2saBZi2QxlZjlMq7xLSNReBmF_Kg74Ae4aIadgoDxgr1_CukiPIt3c0Kc3fAiZd8rZmsfejdRk6ms8COmhHFRDLSPg/s1949/657A0327-AC93-4D9B-82E8-AE2CD6060809.jpg" style="caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); font-size: 17.5px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="color: #1e293b;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1949" data-original-width="1169" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiejk7hmS2ZWg8YgacFigGf-snHmjigKK0IAuNT4g6wpRdkT29hZe5Cy328rtiynXKWJJZ_aAmUEypGrimaAgdcplSBNXQT1tII2saBZi2QxlZjlMq7xLSNReBmF_Kg74Ae4aIadgoDxgr1_CukiPIt3c0Kc3fAiZd8rZmsfejdRk6ms8COmhHFRDLSPg/s16000/657A0327-AC93-4D9B-82E8-AE2CD6060809.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #1e293b;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); font-size: x-small; white-space: pre-wrap;">T-shirt: French Connection</span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #1e293b; font-family: inherit; font-size: x-small;"></span></span><p></p><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #1e293b; font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span><a name='more'></a></span><span style="font-size: 17.5px;">Greetings Earthlings!</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #1e293b; font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: 17.5px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></span></div><span style="color: #1e293b; font-family: inherit;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); white-space: pre-wrap;">The importance of prioritizing self-care cannot be overstated. When we take the time to take care of ourselves, we can build a strong foundation for our physical and mental health, enabling us to better manage the pressures of modern life. Self-care helps us to stay energized, productive, and resilient in the face of any challenge that comes our way.</span></span><div><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); color: #1e293b; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); color: #1e293b; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Prioritizing self-care involves more than just getting enough sleep and eating healthy foods—although those are certainly important! It also includes activities such as taking regular breaks from work, exercising regularly, spending time with friends and family, engaging in hobbies or creative pursuits, pursuing relaxation techniques (such as yoga or meditation), and seeking professional help if necessary. Taking regular vacations or simply taking a few days off every couple of months can also be beneficial for reducing stress levels and maintaining overall well-being.</span></span><p></p><p style="--tw-border-opacity: 1; --tw-ring-color: rgba(0,38,234,0.5); --tw-ring-inset: var(--tw-empty, ); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; background-color: white; border-color: rgba(226,232,240,var(--tw-border-opacity)); border-style: solid; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); color: #1e293b; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Self-care does not have to involve expensive treatments or activities; it could simply mean spending 20 minutes every day connecting with nature through a walk in the park or reading a book—whatever works best for you! The key is to make sure that you are giving yourself some “me-time” on a regular basis so that you can re-energize your mind and body.</span></p><p style="--tw-border-opacity: 1; --tw-ring-color: rgba(0,38,234,0.5); --tw-ring-inset: var(--tw-empty, ); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; background-color: white; border-color: rgba(226,232,240,var(--tw-border-opacity)); border-style: solid; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); color: #1e293b; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br style="--tw-border-opacity: 1; --tw-ring-color: rgba(0,38,234,0.5); --tw-ring-inset: var(--tw-empty, ); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; border-color: rgba(226,232,240,var(--tw-border-opacity)); border-style: solid; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;" /></span></p><p style="--tw-border-opacity: 1; --tw-ring-color: rgba(0,38,234,0.5); --tw-ring-inset: var(--tw-empty, ); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; background-color: white; border-color: rgba(226,232,240,var(--tw-border-opacity)); border-style: solid; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); color: #1e293b; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Regular self-care habits can help improve physical health by helping reduce symptoms associated with chronic illnesses such as depression and anxiety. They can also benefit us emotionally by allowing us to process emotions and develop healthier means of coping with stressors. Moreover, self-care helps us balance our lives by setting boundaries between work life, personal life, family life, etc., thus leading to better decision-making skills when it comes to managing our daily lives. </span></p><p style="--tw-border-opacity: 1; --tw-ring-color: rgba(0,38,234,0.5); --tw-ring-inset: var(--tw-empty, ); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; background-color: white; border-color: rgba(226,232,240,var(--tw-border-opacity)); border-style: solid; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); color: #1e293b; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br style="--tw-border-opacity: 1; --tw-ring-color: rgba(0,38,234,0.5); --tw-ring-inset: var(--tw-empty, ); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; border-color: rgba(226,232,240,var(--tw-border-opacity)); border-style: solid; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;" /></span></p><p style="--tw-border-opacity: 1; --tw-ring-color: rgba(0,38,234,0.5); --tw-ring-inset: var(--tw-empty, ); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 transparent; --tw-shadow: 0 0 transparent; background-color: white; border-color: rgba(226,232,240,var(--tw-border-opacity)); border-style: solid; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; caret-color: rgb(30, 41, 59); color: #1e293b; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">By developing consistent self-care routines in our lives, we will be able to lead happier and healthier lives while achieving more tremendous success both personally and professionally. 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-67653993359940102472023-03-01T22:07:00.001-05:002023-03-01T22:07:29.601-05:00YOU ARE HEALED UNTIL YOU ARE TRIGGERED<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi43X-noFnJzkMWiMZKv6r6AO8-oVsb4V8D7axRySRufHRdUCheQCKtN-Yo1WmjqUWcriFRkJGF4EaDBAdIkOusF4KiHdOvc630aa6Xr1kL_zesr0on9t2Jqcfhuf-v7iNmHId61_eXD2-mSPG56QM2uewR42rOt4JNlc_3FVn1vyJXLhyqtcvUjs5SjQ/s2080/BFBA4472-4FAF-4F84-87AD-A81CDE345BE1.JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2080" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi43X-noFnJzkMWiMZKv6r6AO8-oVsb4V8D7axRySRufHRdUCheQCKtN-Yo1WmjqUWcriFRkJGF4EaDBAdIkOusF4KiHdOvc630aa6Xr1kL_zesr0on9t2Jqcfhuf-v7iNmHId61_eXD2-mSPG56QM2uewR42rOt4JNlc_3FVn1vyJXLhyqtcvUjs5SjQ/s16000/BFBA4472-4FAF-4F84-87AD-A81CDE345BE1.JPG" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><div>Pants: Melesia Robinson Sneakers<span style="font-family: inherit;">:<span style="font-size: xx-small;"> <span style="text-align: start; text-transform: uppercase;">AIR JORDAN 1 RETRO HIGH '85 OG 'BLACK WHITE'<span><a name='more'></a></span></span></span></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table><p>Happy New Month! May this month be filled with lots of healthy healing and love!</p><p>We've all been there; feeling an emotional wound, resurfacing and grasping for healing, understanding that life is too short not to feel whole. Yet so often when we are triggered - or deep-rooted pain from a past experience surfaces - it can dampen our progress towards wellness and peace. It’s frustrating to experience sudden bouts of anxiety, depression or sadness when life <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="c9f2ac49-95a5-4b37-88d0-6b38d1c54140">seems</wt-ignore> to be <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="052b7d19-edd6-4d30-87d7-0fab285ff11a">going</wt-ignore> well. You may find yourself repeatedly pulled back into the trauma as if you’ve been stuck in a time loop; with no control over your emotions or wellbeing. In this blog post we will explore how to break free of these <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="ae1e15eb-24a7-4d46-bfcf-857d81a013f8">chains. We will</wt-ignore> claim ownership <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="36871766-2673-458b-b1e0-cd3ffc72a76a">of</wt-ignore> our healed state until another trigger finds its way into our lives. I'm learning that healing is a <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="56985a81-515d-4869-8fea-760818519a03">never-ending</wt-ignore> <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="d568b52f-aa91-4205-9657-5173a4a3bc5e">cycle. You'll</wt-ignore> have to constantly work on ways to cope with your traumas and triggers. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="d93c10cd-f78a-4fce-8a8d-57a366defb16"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="cfabb5c4-58d2-4b7e-8d86-51748c11ea6c">I was triggered this past <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="2abac749-636f-45c2-aead-ab25cae3bf00">weekend.</wt-ignore> I knew I was triggered, <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="33cbfb13-037b-49c4-89ad-d63d2526a505">but I didn't</wt-ignore> admit it to myself right away. My emotions got the best of me and the reason for my trauma kept replaying itself in my head. I began to <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="85e40282-209f-4893-82b0-5acd1c2caed0">overthink</wt-ignore> and I <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="e9968650-cf2a-4a9c-8b9e-f6745d05be13">spiraled</wt-ignore> down this <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="fa7041c5-a23c-45a5-a12a-13073d6170ae">self-sabotaging</wt-ignore> rabbit hole. Three days <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="6d269312-ada5-441c-95e7-95fcc53d7b1e">later,</wt-ignore> I literally had to ask myself why I was doing <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="9ec61dbc-33bf-4d90-ae6b-ea244b650bfb">this.</wt-ignore> It helped <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="86f3ccad-341a-460c-96b7-f357ece93ba7">me snap</wt-ignore> back into reality and gave me a <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="260e5540-608e-499e-b515-89773bc3e643">reason to</wt-ignore> laugh. I've done the work before and I can and will do it again. It is <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-dismissed" uuid="c24d33b4-ddd5-4768-8560-7e4a2bf508bb">important</wt-ignore> for me to do the work not only for myself, but also for my children. <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="857b3ceb-7073-48a2-9517-15abde343539">They deserve</wt-ignore> a mom who is willing to fight and overcome. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="78763d41-5fd9-417a-8a1f-38930cab6123"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e5c214a3-aa00-4276-bb95-65ffe04c1f26">If we can become aware enough to listen <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="4d18e586-e8da-4db3-a775-36652d930012">to</wt-ignore> what our body is telling us—like where the discomfort stems from and how it’s connecting with our current environment—we can start transforming these unexpected triggers into opportunities to explore underlying unresolved issues. It’s <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="6bc06e75-4ca4-449d-8aec-e78bb98ef55c">admirable</wt-ignore> when anyone <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="36562a7a-4d6e-4266-8354-93f364437eb2">takes</wt-ignore> steps to heal from <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="95270a1e-191a-40f1-bca2-f231609e8b4f">their</wt-ignore> triggers, and it’s <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="b9a3b231-3199-4104-9f05-3a903cf5e474">also vital </wt-ignore>to recognize that healing comes in stages. Even when you feel healed, it’s <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="c4f983bc-1732-4752-b537-dc8b2a3f0e5d">imperative</wt-ignore> to stay mindful and aware of potential <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="c1dba458-2701-4a66-9c8a-e71a28ffeb8f">triggers. In addition, it's important</wt-ignore> to have strategies in place to help you manage any difficult situations that may arise. There are many resources available to help you navigate difficult times, such as counseling, support groups, and online communities. <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="a6ed0c60-a760-46c4-b4ad-bf064663ebb7">It is important to find what works for you and to find another when one thing stops working.</wt-ignore></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e5c214a3-aa00-4276-bb95-65ffe04c1f26"></p><h1 style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i>The best version of you is here and now - Melesia Robinson</i></span></b><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGx1ewCPuxCgCQDMssVZWVY2HuerIy_Mp2KDCvAxeIl8mJdFUvrjndit-XaZHJReN8ynhE8437XRLDz81vPrhEWLVxot3mN9AyT6FDMmXfJV4QgDaQeoSP7oSnQyOKtAsk4nQq6LN7W10dgxCVjejyKHz3d1VwYjr-Rxv05AjdBGdOkNTRvQGNfOg5sw/s4032/IMG_3287.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="2268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGx1ewCPuxCgCQDMssVZWVY2HuerIy_Mp2KDCvAxeIl8mJdFUvrjndit-XaZHJReN8ynhE8437XRLDz81vPrhEWLVxot3mN9AyT6FDMmXfJV4QgDaQeoSP7oSnQyOKtAsk4nQq6LN7W10dgxCVjejyKHz3d1VwYjr-Rxv05AjdBGdOkNTRvQGNfOg5sw/s16000/IMG_3287.HEIC" /></a></h1><p></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="c1cb75de-2902-4030-8605-440d98237c59"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="cd84e9b5-1698-41b6-aa2a-261509f2a78d">I curated a list to help that you can start with. You <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="32638352-83f0-46e9-9529-113eccfadbba">don't</wt-ignore> have to follow these in order, but I recommend <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="70865685-2570-4c28-aad2-72976c4c365d">them.</wt-ignore> <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="d3b4a3b8-230e-4d1a-920f-4aac5d244907">My suggestions are only based on my experience, as I am not a doctor or professional.</wt-ignore></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="eb7f9859-8a9a-4355-bf29-06236544422a"></p><ol class="list-decimal px-8"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="2e3ab164-e3a0-4681-ac58-f94e63c186f3">Seek professional help. Trauma is best addressed with the help of a mental health professional.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="1c0f5fb2-224b-421e-b1af-51b47711dec5">Connect with supportive people. Find a safe and supportive environment in which to talk to people who understand what you’re <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="1ce15261-7105-4500-97de-4483a70cd90a">struggling</wt-ignore> <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="9381d6fc-cd31-4a0b-be7c-69d9a1b99849">with.</wt-ignore></p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="1ff9be2d-d606-43fe-b630-24376bbc7d04">Practice self-care. Take the time to take care of yourself by getting adequate sleep, eating healthy, and engaging in activities you enjoy. Taking time for yourself to do activities that make you feel <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="5bb60880-285e-4340-961d-bde3ff3028cb">satisfied</wt-ignore> can help to restore balance in your life.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="db8f1b07-66d9-4501-9440-0c91284a2910">Practice mindfulness. Mindfulness can help you become aware of your thoughts and emotions and can help you learn to better manage them.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="126f0048-b874-4fb9-909c-d87ead6d226a">Try relaxation techniques. Practice deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided imagery to help relax your body and mind.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="47ea56cf-3aae-4b09-a20c-5497f44f55c6">Exercise. Exercise can help reduce stress, improve mood, and help your body and mind heal.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="c3950dc7-17b5-4187-a910-3c6b760cc3e3">Focus on the present. Acknowledge the past but try to focus on the present and move forward.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="a4c35688-5b7b-4141-acb0-d8a15fe5af3b">Acknowledge your strengths. Remind yourself of your strengths and what you have accomplished in life.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="ae3274d7-6533-47bf-b6ad-e0dcb1c0a350">Find your purpose. Find something that brings meaning to your life, such as volunteering or pursuing a passion.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b3fb7798-cbe0-4c43-8dbe-e715a4ca2638">Create a safe space - This could be a place in your home or a specific item that you can use to provide comfort when feeling overwhelmed.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="2c59178c-3fd9-4dd2-920f-16a30abe2551">Create positive affirmations - Writing or saying positive statements about yourself can help to shift your perspective and promote feelings of self-love and acceptance.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="8984d762-8121-4b07-b9e7-29a0415d86d1">Compassionately talk to yourself - Talk to yourself in the same way that you would to a loved one - be gentle, understanding, and kind.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="81383759-ef22-47d8-9b5b-58bb06daed74">Journal - Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help to provide clarity, perspective, and insight.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="15f05079-9c89-4ef0-a5f1-392fc6aa5db7">Practice visualization - Visualizing yourself as a calm, confident person can help to reduce stress and create a feeling of peace and tranquility.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="c3b47843-8d97-446a-bcc0-d82230cd3add"></p></li></ol><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="885f983d-bf11-450e-9ded-11a82db5b4f6">My first priority in life is to create and maintain a safe space for myself and my children - both physically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally. <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="7f7a001f-e545-4b9e-a223-3b9540deaa35">It's important</wt-ignore> for me to <wt-ignore source="wt-feature-result" uuid="d3c0cb60-d33e-49e0-8cbf-635487ccbf14">take</wt-ignore> strides towards my healing process with preparation and self-care, but sometimes things beyond our control can cause us to feel vulnerable or exposed. When faced with unexpected trauma or conflict, it may trigger negative emotions like anger or fear - making our job of protecting those we love so much more difficult. But there's hope! Explore how you can become empowered by healing unresolved or resurfaced conflicts from the past so that you are better able to manage any triggers that come up in the future. Happy Healing!</p><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; text-align: center;"><b style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: large;"><i><br /></i></span></b></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; text-align: center;"><b style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: large;"><i>"I refuse to stay stuck in areas God said I would prosper in". - Melesia Robinson</i></span></b></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: #333333; font-size: 13.2px;"><br /></b></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: #333333; font-size: 13.2px;"><br /></b></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; 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font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">*</span></span></span></span></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Please note that every picture taken on my blog belongs to me, unless otherwise stated. These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-48715830352265956052023-02-07T04:44:00.002-05:002023-02-07T04:44:38.414-05:00YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT THE REASON YOU'RE NOT PURSUING YOUR DREAMS <div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZyFhdGLMx20/XuwH6D0HaQI/AAAAAAAA7lk/EtQMfG8URikzkVylomAyHBtOAUzJJhwTACK4BGAsYHg/s2048/78750869_984837891894541_2269418903404806144_o.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1366" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZyFhdGLMx20/XuwH6D0HaQI/AAAAAAAA7lk/EtQMfG8URikzkVylomAyHBtOAUzJJhwTACK4BGAsYHg/s16000/78750869_984837891894541_2269418903404806144_o.jpg" /></a><span><a name='more'></a></span></div></div><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="2b9e28a3-47e8-4c8b-8f94-a252d227707a">Greetings Earthlings, go be your best self and know that you are supported. </p><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="2b9e28a3-47e8-4c8b-8f94-a252d227707a">If you don't pursue your dreams, it's not because of your children. By actively making that decision, you are taking responsibility for it. You can make excuses or you can make it happen. Sometimes, I push through with tears and one kid on my hip. I refuse to look back and say they are the reason I didn’t do the things I wanted to accomplish. Instead, I would like to look back and say they are the reason I made <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="ffc05435-a465-4de6-840b-0a9504d63e7d" data-testid="issue-underline:this happen!">it (insert profanity) happen!</span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="81911d90-1a26-46da-a547-ceec861caa34"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="9fd3dc92-5589-421b-a53f-d1fd5001bb85">My boys are my pride and joy. They have always been attached to my hips, literally. They say it takes a village to raise a child and I've learned why. Living in a state without my direct family to help has been incredibly challenging. I could have made excuses and given up on doing the things I wanted to do. There is nothing like being surrounded by family who are willing to help you when you need it the most. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="94719622-8aaf-4d2b-8a29-1561f1daf8d4"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="943711a0-7a62-4595-bb6c-586389b6126e">I started taking my boy with me to photoshoots instead of waiting weeks to get a schedule that worked best. I have to admit that it was a hassle, but after each shoot, I felt so accomplished and had an incredible sense of joy. This is how I knew this was indeed my purpose. I loved what I was doing way too much to let anything stop me from pursuing it. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="7d8ed079-8e5c-4ce2-a183-2d16ef94d995"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="a2beb155-80ea-4035-9eef-227a277fbfa2">While my eyes were filled with tears, I did it with a heart full of love. The process was not an easy one by any means. It is probably the first time that I have admitted something like this publicly. Having to carry around a child on set was not all feathers and roses. I would be in so much pain physically after. There have been times when I wanted to give up.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="6de2e9b6-11a6-447f-ac23-f23cf8afb459"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="ddca7c20-e7dc-4501-9063-99f6acf45f9b">In some way, we have collectively come to the conclusion that as soon as you become a parent, the phase of life when you become a parent ceases to exist. Parenting is a very personal thing and there is no one right way to do it. At the moment, there are some parents doing things they would have been doing without kids, like traveling the world. Instead of allowing the children to stop them from embarking on their adventures, the parents carry them along with them. As a matter of fact, I would like to encourage you to do the same.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="5f85bbc9-b521-49f6-96a0-9c9911cdf7e5"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="25f5a881-26b9-4996-be98-eefcec1ec9af">In the absence of your children, you would find that there would be another thing that would hinder you from pursuing your dreams. Many people hide behind their kids because they take advantage of the fact that it is an acceptable excuse on their part. This is not only a valid excuse, but most of your friends will be supportive of your efforts to be a "responsible" parent.</p><div><span class="text_exposed_show" face="system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif" style="caret-color: rgb(28, 30, 33); color: #1c1e21; display: inline; font-size: 14px;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ibcAuLFhQg8/Xuz9uvnBxEI/AAAAAAAA7m8/aN4hlyBjIj4LLk_6Sty1dYpzopl6qCBzACK4BGAsYHg/s6000/IMG_0360%2B2.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3989" data-original-width="6000" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ibcAuLFhQg8/Xuz9uvnBxEI/AAAAAAAA7m8/aN4hlyBjIj4LLk_6Sty1dYpzopl6qCBzACK4BGAsYHg/s16000/IMG_0360%2B2.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div></span></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" face="system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif" style="caret-color: rgb(28, 30, 33); color: #1c1e21; display: inline; font-size: 14px;"> </span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgclZ5Hf5boXbrQBfUiab6muaDBVGn4mvXujSrq3oW7SC1oQpZeTp5oT2hBS_qz6vflbENaeTqsK7kv3peiVFfjXfKCoGnFdzOGxtqi0J-ktlTv4qzvRRejHc4jf7DQG9CGruTY6eIJTmuRM8eLTMDG7mN9EokilrzrGapzmOLJEGe4o-P4E0Fnhh5EuA/s854/Screen%20Shot%202022-11-23%20at%202.52.20%20PM.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="550" data-original-width="854" height="451" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgclZ5Hf5boXbrQBfUiab6muaDBVGn4mvXujSrq3oW7SC1oQpZeTp5oT2hBS_qz6vflbENaeTqsK7kv3peiVFfjXfKCoGnFdzOGxtqi0J-ktlTv4qzvRRejHc4jf7DQG9CGruTY6eIJTmuRM8eLTMDG7mN9EokilrzrGapzmOLJEGe4o-P4E0Fnhh5EuA/w854-h451/Screen%20Shot%202022-11-23%20at%202.52.20%20PM.png" width="854" /></a><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em; text-align: left;">It's important to remember that your children are not the only factor in achieving your dreams. Having children can make it harder to pursue specific goals due to time and financial constraints, but it's also possible to make it work. You can get creative with your time and energy, and you may even be able to find ways to involve your children in your pursuits. There are countless stories of parents who have achieved their dreams while raising children, so don't let your kids be an excuse for not pursuing your goals.</span></div></div><div><span class="text_exposed_show" face="system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif" style="caret-color: rgb(28, 30, 33); color: #1c1e21; display: inline; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #1c1e21;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(28, 30, 33); font-size: 14px;">PS: Your favorite motivational mom</span></span>preneur!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">"I refuse to stay stuck in areas God said I would prosper in". - Melesia Robinson</b></div><div><b style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><br /></b></div><div><b style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); 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font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">*</span></span></span></span></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Please note that every picture taken on my blog belongs to me, unless otherwise stated. These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-7218895585738418592023-02-04T16:48:00.003-05:002023-02-05T07:02:41.334-05:00FREE YOURSELF FROM SELF-SABOTAGING HABITS <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-GIcjMp3Vs7dMKMGzb-e3tvanIlsOLIWxZMPaGfl5ESrzIC6fHk7VZkfkZBX6K0IT6owuruLdjjjWrIKyCWxm9OiFbPt6J8sWYTQbh23XrKl3-5lKInihd6_m8NEBKBOhgKXRpOow29FmRgV7v81MNkT8ToWdzVG5DoSQL5GZMQFZFrxzM613apt8Nw/s1872/IMG_2730.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1872" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-GIcjMp3Vs7dMKMGzb-e3tvanIlsOLIWxZMPaGfl5ESrzIC6fHk7VZkfkZBX6K0IT6owuruLdjjjWrIKyCWxm9OiFbPt6J8sWYTQbh23XrKl3-5lKInihd6_m8NEBKBOhgKXRpOow29FmRgV7v81MNkT8ToWdzVG5DoSQL5GZMQFZFrxzM613apt8Nw/s16000/IMG_2730.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Location: Cassa Residence Pants: <a href="http://melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a> Top: <a href="http://amazon.com" target="_blank">Amazon</a> Shoes: <span face="var(--chakra-fonts-suisseIntlMedium)" style="caret-color: rgb(36, 36, 36); color: #242424; text-align: start;">Jordan 1 Mid SE </span><span color="var(--chakra-colors-neutral-500)" face="var(--chakra-fonts-suisseIntlMedium)" style="caret-color: rgb(36, 36, 36); text-align: start;">Dark Chocolate (GS) Hat: H&M<br /><br /></span><span><a name='more'></a></span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="359d6a4d-9b8e-4a0d-a7d4-f1e46492783f">Greeting Earthlings, </p><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="359d6a4d-9b8e-4a0d-a7d4-f1e46492783f">Quick update on my life. As you all know, I am not a big fan of the gym. The last couple of weeks have been fantastic for me mentally and physically because I've been working out. I've been feeling so amazing lately and I'm thankful that one change has led to many awesome days. Yesterday, I had the pleasure of shooting at a luxury residence & hotel in Time Square. I was looking to book a studio, then it hit me that it would be cool to shoot at the hotel where I would have unlimited time and access. I immediately dismissed the thought, then revised it with positive self-talk. After thinking about what the potential outcome could be, I proceeded to text the point of contact. As I waited, I hoped that he would say "yes" and when he did, I laughed out of shock but was filled with joy. Because of my self-sabotaging habits, I tend to sabotage my own efforts. It was so easy for me to dismiss the idea of asking because I don't like to think that I am a burden. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="1b97648b-aafd-4d93-bd5c-b65a507e10d5"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4229bac9-1fb8-490a-8381-a2872443d3cd">Lucky for me I am all for healing and finding the roots of these behaviors because I refuse to stay stuck in areas God said I would prosper in. Let's heal together.... shall we? </p><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="359d6a4d-9b8e-4a0d-a7d4-f1e46492783f">Self-sabotaging behaviors can be defined as behaviors we engage in that prevent us from achieving our goals. As I grew to know myself as a person, I became aware of how destructive some of the behaviors I possess were. In my experience, the biggest challenges I have faced were not asking for help, being an over-giver, trying to save everyone, being a yes girl, perfectionism, giving my energy freely, overthinking, showing up for others without allowing them to show up for me, and much more. As you are reading this, I am sure that you are either able to relate to this or might have recognized these behaviors within yourself or around you. The most significant thing in life is balance, and that is what I am striving to achieve in my life. </p><p><span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-error-main hover:bg-error-lightest" data-issueid="1c725938-a314-4658-bb89-75023b83c1d1" data-testid="issue-underline:goals. It">I</span>t is<span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="56d39b0e-7d21-4f05-947a-863126d246b5" data-testid="issue-underline:critical"> importan</span>t to understand that some of the behaviors that lead to self-sabotage are procrastination, perfectionism, unhealthy comparisons, rumination, overthinking, negative self-talk, ignoring feelings, avoiding risks, and not defining boundaries. All of these behaviors can be harmful because they keep us from taking action and achieving our goals. They can also lead to feelings of guilt and shame, which can further prevent us from taking action. It is helpful to recognize when you are engaging in these behaviors and to find healthy ways to address them. This can be done by replacing unhelpful thoughts with more positive ones, challenging negative beliefs, and reframing situations in a constructive manner. Be kind and gentle with yourself in this process. </p><p><br /></p><h1 style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-size: medium;">Here are 21 common self sabotaging behaviors:</span> </b></h1><div><span data-canva-clipboard="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"></span><ol style="direction: ltr; line-height: 1.4;"><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Not asking for help </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Procrastinating or avoiding tasks </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Over-committing yourself</span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Setting unrealistic expectations </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Self-doubt or negative self-talk </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Perfectionism </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Focusing on the past or worrying about the future </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Blaming others </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Refusing to take responsibility </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Allowing fear to dictate decisions </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Ignoring sound advice </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Not saying "no" to requests </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Comparing yourself to others </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Constantly seeking validation from others </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Believing you do not deserve success </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Refusing to take risks </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Not believing in yourself </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Avoiding change</span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Giving up too easily </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;">Overthinking </span></li><li style="list-style: decimal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0em;"> Not asking for help</span></li></ol><div><b>How many of these did you relate to? </b></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-size: medium;">10 Ways to free yourself from self-sabotaging habits </span></b></div></div><ol class="list-decimal px-8" data-pm-slice="3 3 []"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="c09e6452-4671-49bc-b3d2-aaea2ee6d917">Identify the source. You must identify the source of your self-sabotaging habits in order to be able to free yourself from them. Consider the reasons why you are performing these behaviors, and what is driving you to act in this manner.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="c388bbc7-8b2c-42d4-8d19-af70d697cd5e">Change your environment. It can be beneficial to change your environment in order to help you break routines and habits that lead to self-sabotage. Try changing things up if you're always stressed out in a particular place and trying something different if you're always stressed out there.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="92a46007-438a-49bd-b0a3-6def53defb49">Find a healthy distraction. When you feel like you're on the verge of self-sabotage, take a moment and do something else to distract your mind. Spend some time exercising, watching a movie, or calling a friend and talking about your day.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="c2dadd5f-5318-494e-90cb-f54e0b350bea">Practice positive self-talk. If you remind yourself that you are capable and that you can accomplish anything you set your mind to, you will succeed. You can break the vicious cycle of self-sabotage by using positive self-talk and encouraging yourself to do better.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="8e00618d-49ac-4bcb-800f-d02c52c6b8b9">Set achievable goals. Setting achievable goals can give you a sense of accomplishment and create a sense of pride in your work. This can help break the cycle of self-sabotage.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e4591262-2f96-4337-9288-6aaafe2572a7">Practice mindfulness. Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and paying attention to your feelings and thoughts. Maintaining control over your behaviors and thoughts is possible through mindfulness.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="24ce46c3-bbda-46ad-9076-6b33b5c12210">Get organized. Having a plan and structure can help you stay on track and avoid getting sidetracked by your self-sabotaging habits.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="6f755e2d-336b-4de5-bdd6-7376309fc2a7">Get support. Talking to a friend, family member, or mental health professional can provide you with the support you need to break the cycle of self-sabotage.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b78dbf09-8c8e-419f-9c22-4613ced3ddd3">Avoid triggers. Remind yourself of the things that trigger your self-sabotaging behavior and try to avoid them.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="5b016465-188a-4bfd-9404-4662ed894a64">Celebrate small wins. 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-57327421954713379652023-01-21T07:00:00.001-05:002023-01-21T07:00:00.208-05:0010 WAYS TO IGNORE NEGATIVE COMMENTS <p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEjj7kHGaPG9epvF_HTu4RBdK9S-cO-qJOH7fGYiQCdUegUhXBHY4nf_8ZTOPOYf4hZ7RGB-IUQlVyCNGTFa1bg7pN2HGL29ZQVT06508htV1gOv2Tn2kCITsntAqtGQoFTWfbZh4AiLPXGZ2Jbg4HCJGkcr4ks-xABExnpeaEVmQ0PlyYtsFtxdzY0g/s1920/10%20WAYS%20TO%20IGNORE%20NEGATIVE%20COMMENTS.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1920" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEjj7kHGaPG9epvF_HTu4RBdK9S-cO-qJOH7fGYiQCdUegUhXBHY4nf_8ZTOPOYf4hZ7RGB-IUQlVyCNGTFa1bg7pN2HGL29ZQVT06508htV1gOv2Tn2kCITsntAqtGQoFTWfbZh4AiLPXGZ2Jbg4HCJGkcr4ks-xABExnpeaEVmQ0PlyYtsFtxdzY0g/s16000/10%20WAYS%20TO%20IGNORE%20NEGATIVE%20COMMENTS.png" /></a></div><p></p><span><a name='more'></a></span><p data-pm-slice="1 3 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="fdf715d4-5357-4a10-b126-e19abf43a132"></p><ol class="list-decimal px-8"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e98534ef-9c23-4be2-863f-0c016df17914">Greetings Earthlings, Happy reading! </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e98534ef-9c23-4be2-863f-0c016df17914">Acknowledge the comment but don't let it define you. For instance, if someone says something negative about you, simply thank them for their opinion and move on without letting it affect your self-worth. As Amaka Imani Nkosazana put it: “If someone doesn't care to accept you, respect you, believe in you, don't hesitate to move on and let them go. There are many who love and appreciate you just the way you are.” </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="755960a3-b26a-4849-b932-92bbd9ad5b64">Focus on the positive aspects of your life and what you have achieved. Don't dwell on the negative and focus your energy on those who see you for who you are and appreciate you for it. This is like training a muscle; the more you focus on the positive, the stronger and more resilient it becomes. Each time you turn away from the negative and towards the positive, it's like a small workout that makes the ‘positive muscle’ stronger.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="515f6b48-095e-4406-a139-70f00cbe1044">Remember that you have the power to choose how you react to these comments. This is a form of cognitive behavioral therapy. By refocusing your thoughts and concentrating on the positive, you can condition yourself to respond more positively to negative comments or situations. Over time, this can help to build emotional resilience and increase your overall happiness. As Roy T. Bennett once wrote: “You cannot control the behavior of others, but you can always choose how you respond to it.” </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="bbc218cf-1e96-4c4b-80db-6f59b6b9730d">Don't take the comment personally or give it any energy. Instead, channel that energy into something positive that will bring you closer to your goals. As Roy T. Bennett once wrote: “What other people think and say about you is none of your business. The most destructive thing you could ever do is believe someone else's opinion of you. You have to stop letting other people's opinions control you.” </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="2a243d21-7656-44b5-9f2c-7cd6f3fdd46d">Surround yourself with positive people and positive thoughts. Seek encouragement and support from those who will lift you up rather than weigh you down. As Oprah Winfrey once said: “Surround yourself only with people who are going to take you higher.” </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="fc87084b-2865-40e2-ac75-51813766197b">Engage in activities that make you feel good. Fill your life with experiences that bring joy and valuable lessons, and you will be well on your way to personal success. Albert Schweitzer once said: “Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="bb589ac5-1983-48b8-837c-9fb41929ec9e">Remember that the person making the comment may be projecting their own insecurities. Therefore, it is important to keep a healthy distance and perspective when dealing with such situations. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="711c175f-7482-4307-8d31-c78fedc972dc">Take a break from social media or other platforms where the comment was made. However, it is also important to stand up for yourself when someone is making hurtful comments. If the comments are coming from a place of ignorance, you have the opportunity to educate the person. If the comments are coming from a place of malice, you can report the person to the platform where the comments were made.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b500d1a9-99f2-4b6f-b3fa-d890d6efd410">Find an outlet for your feelings such as writing, painting, or talking with friends. Moreover, focus on positive comments and don't dwell on the negative ones; it is not worth the time and energy. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e48e89be-ba1f-46fa-be5d-fa3769b78945">Reach out to a professional if you feel like negative comments are affecting your mental health. For example, talking to a therapist can help you understand and process your feelings in a healthy way.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e48e89be-ba1f-46fa-be5d-fa3769b78945"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">PS: I LOVE YOU!</span></b></p><h4 style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0px; position: relative; text-align: center;"><span style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Please check out my book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/SorryMelody-goodbye-limited-beliefs-choosing-ebook/dp/B09PJ1D5S2" style="color: black; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; transition: all 0.2s ease-out 0s;" target="_blank">#SorryMelody</a>, available on Amazon.</span></span></h4><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; 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font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">*</span></span></span></span></div></li></ol><div class="blogger-post-footer">Please note that every picture taken on my blog belongs to me, unless otherwise stated. These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-82642877297670247862023-01-19T23:27:00.006-05:002023-01-20T00:37:38.095-05:0021 WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR MORNING<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1yX7BbPRPW7M_3FOi7nTbWo3kXeA9c6ek9oN_GPg4I9FOC3PvoNs0z3B-3F-xYhvpbQ9pBg5eJ6513jDj4HHAJbmkpzM5t_H39G0EsqCb-uwxtaoIEGL7PDZtoNwTnjZ-lI9eJbYiMFgYZMPdXQmO3bFL03iuor94p6fkYsNjFe3ElRBdenIyfTBgOg/s1920/start%20your%20morning%20with%20smile..png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1920" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1yX7BbPRPW7M_3FOi7nTbWo3kXeA9c6ek9oN_GPg4I9FOC3PvoNs0z3B-3F-xYhvpbQ9pBg5eJ6513jDj4HHAJbmkpzM5t_H39G0EsqCb-uwxtaoIEGL7PDZtoNwTnjZ-lI9eJbYiMFgYZMPdXQmO3bFL03iuor94p6fkYsNjFe3ElRBdenIyfTBgOg/s16000/start%20your%20morning%20with%20smile..png" /></a></div><span><a name='more'></a></span><p>HAPPY NEW CYCLE, I'm excited to share not just my lifestyle but so much more content and context with my lovely readers. In the morning, do you have a hard time getting going? Jump-starting your day can be difficult, but there are strategies you can use to make it easier. Just think of it as a race against your snooze button. </p><p>According to research, around 40% of men and 50% of women identify as morning people. To make the most of the morning hours, it is important to consider ways to capitalize on this time and make it your most productive. Ways to improve your morning include getting enough sleep, eating a healthy breakfast, creating a morning routine, and starting the day with an activity you enjoy. Additionally, it's important to set realistic goals and prioritize tasks so that you can make the most of your morning hours. An important aspect of making the most of your mornings is to identify what works best for you and then implement it into your daily routine. This will help you maximize your productivity and ensure that you start your day off on the right foot.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="2bdf07ac-d030-4480-a428-f09aa13039b4"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="8d8ac842-a20b-4ba9-90b7-89b2e9f06913" style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-size: large;">Here are 21 things you can try: </span></b></p><ol class="list-decimal px-8"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="498c7b24-fd15-4841-ae71-42005a3eac43">Get up early – Rise with the sun and start your day with a sense of accomplishment. This will give you a feeling of empowerment and will set the stage for the rest of your day. Wake up early and capitalize on the sun's energy to begin your day with a feeling of success.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="669f20d0-3d66-4d30-a7c3-9deae0a7c0d3">Stretch and move – A few simple stretches and a short walk can get your body moving and your mind ready for the day. It will help improve circulation and flexibility, increase energy and focus, and reduce stress. So, take a few minutes in the morning to stretch out your muscles and enjoy a brisk walk around your neighborhood.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="eeaf94c3-9a72-433f-95ef-0ccd2b91c0e3">Drink water – Start your day with a tall glass of water to help hydrate your body and jumpstart your metabolism. Water helps flush out toxins and carries nutrients to your cells. According to the U.S. National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, men should drink about 15.5 cups (3.7 liters) of fluids a day, and women should drink about 11.5 cups (2.7 liters) of fluids a day. So, drink up and get ready to tackle the day!</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="f486d858-52cc-4a71-a373-0a214f0164d2">Enjoy a healthy breakfast – Eating breakfast gives you the energy to start your day and nourishes your body. It is important to choose healthy options like whole grains, fruits, vegetables, and proteins like eggs or yogurt. Eating a healthy breakfast can also help you stay hydrated, as many foods contain water or other fluids.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="721114cb-cd8f-4698-ae16-65c48ee10615">Take your vitamins – Taking a multivitamin or various supplements can help provide you with the nutrients your body needs. Taking a multivitamin or various supplements can help provide you with the nutrients your body needs. Additionally, certain vitamins, such as vitamin D, can help boost your immune system and keep you healthy. 57.6% of Americans aged 20 and over have used a dietary supplement in the past 30 days, while overall usage grows higher as age increases. Additionally, 25.59% more women use supplements than men.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="504f6fea-5c15-462a-84ad-474895c3c848">Listen to music – Put on a favorite playlist to get you in a positive and productive mood. Listening to music can help you focus, relax, combat stress, and even boost your mood. It can also help you stay motivated and energized, so you can tackle your tasks with enthusiasm and gusto.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="85a52122-6ee7-4428-83fc-0ee3ac57bc07">Meditate or do yoga – Take a few minutes to clear your mind and relax your body. Focusing on your breathing and clearing your thoughts can help you stay focused and productive on the task at hand. This is like preparing the soil before planting a garden. Clearing out weeds and debris and adding nourishment to the soil helps ensure that the plants will be healthy and thriving. Likewise, taking the time to meditate or do yoga can help to clear the mental “weeds” and help us stay focused and productive.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="1dcb3e7c-d28e-474e-80ba-de274525942c">Read something inspirational – Get inspired by reading a quote or passage that resonates with you. Get inspired by reading a book or article that speaks to you. Reading can give you a new perspective on life, open your eyes to new possibilities, and help you gain clarity on where you want to go next. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="f6baedeb-7538-49d5-8f15-0e33fa255d14">Make your bed – Starting your day with a made bed can set the tone for a productive day. Starting your day with a made bed can help you feel more organized and in control. It can also give you a sense of accomplishment, as you have already done something productive. Additionally, having a neat and tidy bed can help with relaxation and sleep quality, making it easier for you to go back to sleep if you wake up in the middle of the night. Additionally, making your bed in the morning can help to create a calming atmosphere in your bedroom. A cluttered, unmade bed can make you feel anxious or overwhelmed, while a neat, made bed can provide a sense of calm and peace. This can help you focus on the tasks of the day and create a more positive outlook. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="a3870d79-4dbb-40a3-8ec1-0ee521bb72d2">Set an intention for the day – Decide what you want to accomplish and focus on that throughout the day. For example, you might set an intention to be present in each moment and to be kind to yourself and others, or to focus on what you're grateful for throughout the day.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="19d6dd5e-bb68-424b-a47d-d5e4ef4a1b1c">Make a to-do list – Writing down tasks and goals will help you stay organized and on track. A to-do list can provide clarity and focus so that you can prioritize what needs to be done and stay productive.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="7906e353-9236-4373-8191-5db745ece005">Take a shower – A shower will help you feel refreshed and energized for the day. Taking a shower and practicing good hygiene is like putting on armor for the day – you’re preparing yourself for whatever challenges you face.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="18652b70-2ef4-4776-bda8-42c80b6e5c74">Practice good hygiene – Make sure to brush your teeth, comb your hair, and put on deodorant. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="ab622002-fe66-4704-97f7-fd232ec9a8f2">Prepare meals ahead of time – Plan and prepare meals for the week ahead so you can grab and go in the morning. Meal-prepping is a great way to save time and energy during the week. It can help you stay on track with your nutrition goals and ensure you have healthy meals throughout the week.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="57e61045-12d3-4d0d-8d59-843c8a9283f3">A smile is a great way to start your day - Get up in the morning with a positive attitude and come into the world with a smiling face. Smiling releases endorphins, which can lift your mood and reduce stress. Writing down your thoughts can help to release emotional tension, clear your mind and ultimately help you to focus on the task ahead. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="edb563e2-31b1-4e7a-b723-d163b67ce1f7"><span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-error-main hover:bg-error-lightest" data-issueid="3c8358d3-3209-4f5f-88b7-dbc99baf993e" data-testid="issue-underline:Journaling">Jour</span>nal – Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a powerful way to start the day. Many famous historical figures, including Leonardo da Vinci, Mark Twain, Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, and Marie Curie, are known for journaling. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="cf6aa1cd-e2c0-4e82-982f-a0c103d2e67a">Exercise – Get your body moving and your heart pumping with a morning workout. Exercise can help to reduce stress, boost your energy levels, and improve your overall health and well-being. Try to find activities that you enjoy, such as walking, running, yoga, or cycling. You can also try strength training, or even dance classes, to get your heart rate up and your body moving.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="8d233ca0-047a-4dc3-a9fa-b01b542d0e5f">Take a moment to enjoy nature – Step outside and take in the fresh air, the birds chirping, and the sun rising. Go for a walk in the park, breathe in the scent of flowers, and enjoy the sunshine. Taking the time to appreciate nature can help to reduce stress and improve your overall well-being. </p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4e719c47-133d-4598-89b7-dfeac669bd54">Connect with people – Reach out to friends and family to stay connected and build relationships. Talk to them about your thoughts, feelings, and experiences, and listen to what they have to say. Making meaningful connections with others can help to reduce stress, build trust, and improve your overall mental health.</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="7d716b75-536b-48a8-af82-b9ac891e3b05">Get organized – Clear up clutter in your home to create a more calm environment. Set up an organizational system that works for you, whether it's a filing system, a calendar, or a to-do list. Having everything in its place will help reduce your stress and let you focus on what really matters. But if all else fails, it's totally acceptable to just throw everything in a box and label it "Miscellaneous"!</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e2b2568b-dc8e-4778-a64e-bfa47baf0d94">Make time for yourself – Take a few moments to do something you enjoy, such as reading a book or listening to music. Your body will be able to relax and unwind as a result of this. When our body is relaxed and we are in a state of rest, our stress hormones decrease and our body can repair itself more efficiently. This improved physical and mental health will help you be more productive and better able to handle stress when it arises. Block out me-time each week (or every two weeks). If you have children, a partner, or other crucial responsibilities, claim a block of time every week to have time for yourself away from your everyday life and busy schedule. The relaxation technique was invented in the 1920s by Edmund Jacobson as a way to help his patients deal with anxiety. The technique involves tightening one muscle group while keeping the rest of the body relaxed and then releasing the tension. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e2b2568b-dc8e-4778-a64e-bfa47baf0d94"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">PS: I LOVE YOU!</span></b></p><h4 style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0px; position: relative; text-align: center;"><span style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Please check out my book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/SorryMelody-goodbye-limited-beliefs-choosing-ebook/dp/B09PJ1D5S2" style="color: black; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; transition: all 0.2s ease-out 0s;" target="_blank">#SorryMelody</a>, available on Amazon.</span></span></h4><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><br /></p><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;"><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;"><span style="color: #d52c1f; font-family: helvetica; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important" style="color: #333333; font-size: medium; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;">Connect with me:</span></span></span></span></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-71581330582953618012022-12-28T13:24:00.002-05:002023-01-19T23:36:57.049-05:00A LIST OF PEOPLE TO LEAVE IN 2022<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-f9Z7ojYiSn6Ur2ekaEs-AQnUgZpJFTcWN-4Xr7XySiRFd9d2ygf80-krob-9mgE3LAql_mn9ruj4mFb6Q99KmJKbm2IZSP6fMU_GExCk9Uqw0XKexu9xpRHMlWrKHdyanVebES4YYSa3-eeh6FpbJo7677bK9DpNL7kcwu_kfBZTsPrZc_kq_b1WXg/s1170/IMG_C1DF76AB59E7-1.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1120" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-f9Z7ojYiSn6Ur2ekaEs-AQnUgZpJFTcWN-4Xr7XySiRFd9d2ygf80-krob-9mgE3LAql_mn9ruj4mFb6Q99KmJKbm2IZSP6fMU_GExCk9Uqw0XKexu9xpRHMlWrKHdyanVebES4YYSa3-eeh6FpbJo7677bK9DpNL7kcwu_kfBZTsPrZc_kq_b1WXg/s16000/IMG_C1DF76AB59E7-1.jpeg" /></a></div><span><a name='more'></a></span><p></p><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4d2e0a24-d9b4-4965-9c88-898cea813d9e">Hello earthlings, the above meme was sent to me, and it's so on trend. I understand the seasons and that things are seasonal. It's not necessarily cutting people off, but certain behaviors I exhibit around certain people. For example, if I knew being around this group of people would cause me to drink or smoke, these are habits I would like to <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="283c3bbe-f33f-46b3-9920-a5558974f25f" data-testid="issue-underline:change.">change or</span> I'm working on changing. I should stop spending my free time with these individuals. It's never personal, it's called growth. I desire more for myself and I want to break the habit of being an alcohol or smoker. Sometimes you just have to <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-error-main hover:bg-error-lightest" data-issueid="51980bbc-f082-443a-a731-53f55e75d692" data-testid="issue-underline:navigate life">navigate through life</span> a bit differently. It is the same patterns or behaviors that keep people trapped in the same situations. Then they start pointing fingers, instead of being accountable for the role they play. </p><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4d2e0a24-d9b4-4965-9c88-898cea813d9e"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4b2b6b20-1b85-47e9-a263-0fb3f5e5e2d5" style="text-align: start;"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b782ea1b-81fe-453f-ac19-876e20b82a9e" style="text-align: start;">I'm getting rid of habits that I no longer resonate with and if that requires setting boundaries with certain individuals, then that's what it has to be. This is because these individuals keep me stuck in a certain pattern that keeps me in a form of misery, anxiety, depression or sickness. My choice to leave behind these behaviors or habits has nothing to do with anyone. It's primarily about healing my mind, body or nervous system and doing what is <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="3d9c955b-f837-4dbc-bb86-3309335408e9" data-testid="issue-underline:right">best</span> for me. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b782ea1b-81fe-453f-ac19-876e20b82a9e" style="text-align: start;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><b>Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be around you, no matter how much you keep them. Unconditional love doesn’t mean unconditional tolerance of abuse, disrespect, or bullshit” it’s not unconditional boundaries.</b></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="fe06330e-914f-4a21-96db-0b1a5431d162" style="text-align: start;"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="7a0eff54-ddb3-4c3f-a07a-db834431893d" style="text-align: start;"><br /></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="7a0eff54-ddb3-4c3f-a07a-db834431893d" style="text-align: start;">It is nearly impossible to imagine why anyone wouldn't want this for themselves. We navigate through life with the intention of being our <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-error-main hover:bg-error-lightest" data-issueid="f6c7de4f-a8fe-4a88-9be0-4a6997f3c467" data-testid="issue-underline:happy,">happiest,</span> loving, healthiest and highest selves. Each and every one of us has a habit or two that we wish we could break once and for all. No matter where you are on your personal growth journey, whether it's spending too much time on social media or eating out too much, there's always something we could do better. When it comes to breaking unproductive habits, it's easier said than done. If you've ever tried, you know just how difficult it can be. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="57eb2d5a-ce97-4b64-972c-9c93df3983e6" style="text-align: start;"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="eee66d38-a12f-4a7c-a3fc-37c0083e45b5" style="text-align: start;"><br /></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="eee66d38-a12f-4a7c-a3fc-37c0083e45b5" style="text-align: start;">Break free from your unhealthy habits by becoming the kind of person you want to be. It is helpful to change your mindset so that you can think of yourself as already being the next level version of yourself. A person's actions tend to follow a person's thoughts. Obviously this isn't magic, but it is a powerful tool. You won't feel guilty for making choices that benefit you in ways that many might not understand. Additionally, it is also helpful to have the conversation with those you care about. It's easy for people to take your healthy lifestyle choices and changes <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-error-main hover:bg-error-lightest" data-issueid="1f60285b-639b-4f4e-b5c5-3e2754e76047" data-testid="issue-underline:personally.">personal.</span></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="8ed65a3a-d379-47fc-a60e-bee2cbe0970d" style="text-align: start;"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="35ce6b47-0d6c-4ff9-97c5-9ae5cde8c22a" style="text-align: center;"><b>May your 2023 be filled with lots of healthy lifestyle choices. </b></p></div><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">PS: I LOVE YOU!</span></b></p><h4 style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-33459867471164895242022-12-16T06:00:00.004-05:002022-12-16T06:00:00.166-05:00 MY FUTURE BELONGS TO ME <p> </p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhw9ueAuSidH63G9mO5V22zUNtAejlZjzGN6L49z43I6gx3kjkam9-9Z4ZQB8-sUTKYfkYiYPo9KJM31Yiz2rdJFdwOBYmyegvNvLVn59UnQkUgFw1yWBKvj4M5eFAFP7hhGdflMlWcJK8yT7synpY2qLyVZw7hsiXw0vhJunK5l0vEBJT15NjshlZXnw/s3409/IMG_8822.tif" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3409" data-original-width="2268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhw9ueAuSidH63G9mO5V22zUNtAejlZjzGN6L49z43I6gx3kjkam9-9Z4ZQB8-sUTKYfkYiYPo9KJM31Yiz2rdJFdwOBYmyegvNvLVn59UnQkUgFw1yWBKvj4M5eFAFP7hhGdflMlWcJK8yT7synpY2qLyVZw7hsiXw0vhJunK5l0vEBJT15NjshlZXnw/s16000/IMG_8822.tif" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Leather Pants & Coat: <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a> Sneakers: Patent Bred Shirt: Amazon </td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><span><a name='more'></a></span><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="0a51211e-6dc6-4a0a-a983-c3857dde1a52" style="text-align: center;">Hello again to all my friends! My days of relying on others to join me in moving in the direction I wish to go are over. Growing up, I always asked someone to accompany me whenever I ventured somewhere. You would have thought I was a twin. I asked a friend to accompany me when I joined the military because it was such a big step for me. Boot camp was cool because we had the opportunity to experience it together and have a sense of home. My codependent traits began to disappear as I claimed my dependency. It still amazes me that I traveled alone to California. It was the happiest feeling ever, and now I know that the fears I imagined in my head are false. With my determination, I am capable of overcoming anything. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="5d81fe40-f047-4578-b6ea-8a641d14dbbf"></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="fcc927d3-60c6-48eb-bef7-d55bacc066c0">My determination to overcome my obstacles is what gives me the strength to do so. My life is in my hands and I decide what I want to do with it! It is my intention to let go of any thoughts that may hinder me from fulfilling my destiny. I release the chains that bind me to self-sabotaging thoughts from my past. As I release the moorings that have held me in the harbor of my old beliefs, I set sail for my highest destiny. I throw off the moorings that have held me there. There is an inner strength that is rising up within me that I have never experienced before. After many years of living by the old ways, I have made the decision to throw them out. My life is about to become one of the happiest years of my life and I am looking forward to it! </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAL0m999kSMvwWSWFeqn9R97pts1Mwq5BwybdErRBD9G05sk4ND79cEmOLQzVwa6efkZpR648uSPbZkZ2c54tIstAf6uc2DtaJt80GnOr1qRG8Xy1g0IHYUHhJJbTDUtQb1QqFlJxoQAwGduE7qGbBvVWWo9YU0yQP57A2mte0ItP5FUvFOxUSbXt-mg/s3088/IMG_8791.tif" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3088" data-original-width="1737" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAL0m999kSMvwWSWFeqn9R97pts1Mwq5BwybdErRBD9G05sk4ND79cEmOLQzVwa6efkZpR648uSPbZkZ2c54tIstAf6uc2DtaJt80GnOr1qRG8Xy1g0IHYUHhJJbTDUtQb1QqFlJxoQAwGduE7qGbBvVWWo9YU0yQP57A2mte0ItP5FUvFOxUSbXt-mg/s16000/IMG_8791.tif" /></a></div><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="3b68d98d-d384-4166-8a6b-9ceb2d212d8c">As soon as I feel negative emotions, I let them go as quickly as possible. The sails of my ship are ablaze with inspiration and I am working hard to keep them there. I am sailing into the future with a lot of confidence as I embark on this journey. It is with much courage that I venture into places I have never been before. It's an adventure for me every day. It's my turn to steer the wheel of fate! This is the beginning of a new chapter in my life! Seeing my ultimate future through the spyglass is a thrilling experience! Staying on track is a priority for me.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="5994cf07-5554-4aed-bff2-8cc9253298a7">In spite of the challenges of life, I have been able to handle them like a pro. Whenever I have trouble finding my way, I rely on my inner compass to guide me. As long as the wind fills my sails, I can continue sailing forward. When distractions attempt to throw me off course, I immediately correct my course. There is no obstacle I can overcome that will prevent me from achieving what I set my mind to. <mark class="wordtune-highlight bg-info-lightest pt-[2px] pb-[3px]" style="background-color: white;">In today's world, </mark>even when the winds of change are blowing toward me, I have my hands firmly <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-error-main hover:bg-error-lightest" data-issueid="dde78ce79e0d40267f6253cd2662ed28" data-testid="issue-underline:gripped">gripping</span> the helm. There is a wind at my back and I can feel it. I sail into the future with confidence and courage as I take each step into the future with courage and ease.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; text-align: center;"><h3><b>Make the effort to improve your livelihood, and you'll be glad you did!</b></h3></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; text-align: center;"><p data-pm-slice="1 3 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="41ba7a21-cf08-4d2f-82e4-57bcdf2780de" style="text-align: start;">Self-Reflection Questions:</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="af16e3b6-99cd-4bf6-9f75-910d5047494a" style="text-align: start;"> </p><ol class="list-decimal px-8" style="text-align: start;"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="5af338e6-7b2a-4fbe-8ef2-fc3c034ea9f2">What can I do to gain more self-confidence and become more self-assured?</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="5498973d-6f3c-4f78-81a4-ddb85be6cef9">What can I do to overcome my doubts?</p></li><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="be981c00-1556-47d4-ad22-5123f191b5c2">How can I improve my life?</p></li></ol></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-56369751500459679222022-12-14T11:05:00.003-05:002022-12-14T11:05:25.339-05:005 WAYS TO BREAK FREE FROM NEGATIVE PATTERNS<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaqsGWzKezw4-PMk-S0RPSpYvuNaCzO1aU6IY0RGHAbMbztPT0X2p3JvMeWT8CNlBgxCcDdxPEOfOjiRF-mbxc8sRhw4zUoM3Nyoj9POIKLGx2nHRyAxqBSKQoJQDYr6p8nd8m7RwzagdvwLJfFv5rNbeMVRMp_jFtV6j5VHj3jNmcnSlni4BBRToneg/s1898/DC721B96-8D40-47D1-9ED0-B2D71FC5DD88.tif" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1898" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaqsGWzKezw4-PMk-S0RPSpYvuNaCzO1aU6IY0RGHAbMbztPT0X2p3JvMeWT8CNlBgxCcDdxPEOfOjiRF-mbxc8sRhw4zUoM3Nyoj9POIKLGx2nHRyAxqBSKQoJQDYr6p8nd8m7RwzagdvwLJfFv5rNbeMVRMp_jFtV6j5VHj3jNmcnSlni4BBRToneg/s16000/DC721B96-8D40-47D1-9ED0-B2D71FC5DD88.tif" /></a></div><span><a name='more'></a></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Hello Again to all my friends, <span style="text-align: left;">There is nothing better than having some more content to share with you this month. It is my pleasure to share with you today a few tips that can help you to break negative patterns. Healing ourselves is a step towards healing the world. Have a healing day!</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><p data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="4a4ce3d5-0426-4a58-b18a-f07cbeb974c2" style="text-align: start;">Habits are a fundamental part of our lives, as they shape the way we live them over the course of a lifetime. As we develop our habits, patterns are formed as part of the process. These are routines we continue to follow. A habit can be helpful for a variety of reasons, including making life easier or helping us remember things, depending on the circumstances.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="48ca2428-cd8d-4b86-b29b-d20801906bc5" style="text-align: start;">The consequences of some actions can be worse than the benefits they provide. Breaking away from these negative patterns as soon as possible requires a lot of effort. You should consider making changes in your life if you are not satisfied with the way things are unfolding. By following these patterns, you may get lost along a destructive path, causing your life and the lives of those closest to you to be challenging. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="ae07618c-75f6-4834-b162-b6b0977dd95c" style="text-align: center;"><b>You might be holding yourself back because of negative patterns. Do you know how to break out of these patterns?</b></p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="e28582eb-206d-4b4d-b035-626821973ba1" style="text-align: start;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzdqN49lfQ1OqrgHyHeTy1_izULUE2ZkTwMq-xg90VgLv4z5J-6KNx3r0TRIrw3fWupQcR_rHflp2DxLTLDmW3Odn5eVlxxjIp-CZ_OcvtTvVXDN8_Kl9ocMSPwOG90tnlN24DwVR4mYwc9D42VX8VIxsAWITSA8ULoaYbqAW223ii0_oECn8p33zKwQ/s3941/IMG_9964.tif" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3941" data-original-width="2268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzdqN49lfQ1OqrgHyHeTy1_izULUE2ZkTwMq-xg90VgLv4z5J-6KNx3r0TRIrw3fWupQcR_rHflp2DxLTLDmW3Odn5eVlxxjIp-CZ_OcvtTvVXDN8_Kl9ocMSPwOG90tnlN24DwVR4mYwc9D42VX8VIxsAWITSA8ULoaYbqAW223ii0_oECn8p33zKwQ/s16000/IMG_9964.tif" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Skirt and Corset Belt: <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a> Boots: Amazon Bag: Gift <br /><br /><h1><b>The following tips can help:</b></h1></td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><ol class="list-decimal px-8" style="text-align: start;"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="da0e94d1-452c-4d6a-b936-ab5cde169ca5"><strong>Identify your problematic habits and get in the habit of recognizing them.</strong> The first step that needs to be taken in order for you to move forward is to identify your negative patterns. Consider your life for a moment, and then ask yourself the following question: Is the life path I am on fulfilling? What aspects of my personality do I dislike? How can I improve?</p></li></ol><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="6d767751-83a4-463e-83e8-30a47eb63382" style="text-align: start;">In the past, you may have <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="7c355b2fb10c616c1f21d3e131a573e7" data-testid="issue-underline:undertaken">taken</span> actions and regretted them later. Take the time to find out why you are feeling this way and figure out what is causing it. Take a moment to list all of these habits. Then, think about all the positive things in your life when you list them. Identifying and admitting to yourself what you do not like is very critical, as well as identifying what you do like.</p><ol class="list-decimal px-8" start="2" style="text-align: start;"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="ed913ca1-e7ab-439c-9373-d5b2c7e0c713"><strong>Make sure you are accountable for your actions.</strong> As soon as you identify your problematic habits, the next step is to stop blaming others for them, in order to get rid of them. For many people, blaming another person for their problems is easier than taking responsibility for them themselves. </p></li></ol><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="0a6b3aff-5cbc-4c53-9e8f-f679b63084ac" style="text-align: start;"> The problem with blaming others is that it will never be possible to change anything. As a rule of thumb, the most effective way to resolve any challenge is by taking responsibility for the actions you took or did not take. In addition, you can make a plan of action that you can follow through with to make sure that you succeed.</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b7bee049-26f5-4c81-8b52-48fcfa02c4af" style="text-align: start;">The act of being accountable for your actions gives you the power to change the course of your life. You don't have to settle for mediocrity!</p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="ccecf2da-d728-465c-a864-cd100008e885" style="text-align: start;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgx_-EDGeamHVAzJ8Kn-HgO2MkWOeUu96uLgdjrsWy_XHWcms__nI5YMeIaDBkAYY9snV3eBQ8Jg9C-yCd7fe0qnNim507uJXXu0ZpCRe3UHlqi1xSM2XzSJj8FVqEl9NM__DORjZkOJuJORibotyhNWAnjseCbjAqycoGtN7hRgrpRNYo5rUkAwc4Vow/s2080/2B73DB03-B7D2-4F98-99F6-7ACA193D9A96.tif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2080" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgx_-EDGeamHVAzJ8Kn-HgO2MkWOeUu96uLgdjrsWy_XHWcms__nI5YMeIaDBkAYY9snV3eBQ8Jg9C-yCd7fe0qnNim507uJXXu0ZpCRe3UHlqi1xSM2XzSJj8FVqEl9NM__DORjZkOJuJORibotyhNWAnjseCbjAqycoGtN7hRgrpRNYo5rUkAwc4Vow/s16000/2B73DB03-B7D2-4F98-99F6-7ACA193D9A96.tif" /></a></div><br /><p></p><ol class="list-decimal px-8" start="3" style="text-align: start;"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="b8157831-316b-4896-8603-286b0afebe76"><strong>It is </strong><span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="37bcaf205ac092bb116593fc3db18fd3" data-testid="issue-underline:imperative"><strong>important</strong></span><strong> that you pay attention to your emotional well-being.</strong> There are a number of factors that determine how people behave in a certain way and what drives them to behave in a certain manner. It is critical for a person to remember that the emotions that they experience in a given situation can either work to their advantage or disadvantage. I believe that it is essential that the decisions we make in life are based on the emotions we feel. This is because these emotions will enable us to succeed in the long term.</p></li></ol><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="3ac88206-0e54-48a4-bc33-4794b74aa8c7" style="text-align: start;">I encourage you to keep a diary and document the feelings you have from day to day. Using this exercise, you will be able to determine why you feel the way you do. You will therefore be able to identify what you need to work on as a result of this. It's helpful to realize that when your feelings aren't in the right place, it may be time to make some changes. Consider getting out of your head and <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="9226bc597a3a582ba05c96f4cd1c271e" data-testid="issue-underline:getting out">going</span> for a walk, watching a movie with a happy ending, or speaking to someone you love to brighten your mood.</p><ol class="list-decimal px-8" start="4" style="text-align: start;"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="15b6368b-2821-4c01-b3c7-cd4409ce8324"><strong>You can learn something from every situation if you look for it.</strong> It's <span class="issue-underline underline text-gray-darkest font-body decoration-2 underline-offset-4 transition decoration-primary-main hover:bg-primary-lightest" data-issueid="11f18b36dfe196e4659954fbd45e661c" data-testid="issue-underline:critical">important</span> to remember that once you have identified a problem, you should also take into consideration any other possible solutions that might have been available. Perhaps you didn't take the time to think through all the possibilities. Ultimately, it is only through learning from our mistakes that we will be able to make better decisions in the future. </p><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="15b6368b-2821-4c01-b3c7-cd4409ce8324">The ability to understand one's negative patterns tends to help us advance. By identifying our problematic habits, we are more likely to learn from them after taking the first step toward overcoming them.</p></li></ol><ol class="list-decimal px-8" start="5" style="text-align: start;"><li><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="dcb7154e-f160-4900-b8b6-b72252cdba27"><strong>Don't follow the path you've been following.</strong> Be sure to consider the consequences of your actions when you feel compelled to act. <strong>Consider different options and find out what works best for you. But also recognize what is essential in your life and act accordingly.</strong></p></li></ol><p data-private="redact" data-wt-guid="6e454e89-00e2-4a48-bcd1-6e2c2c6c32ae" style="text-align: start;"> Achieving change is not an easy thing to do--you must first start with yourself if you want to see results. 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-49648166106617927112022-11-26T12:43:00.009-05:002022-11-26T13:09:39.493-05:00I KILLED MY DAD<p style="text-align: center;"> Life has been a lot of things lately and I'm totally embracing the yuck! </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HoEKKtOC1wA/YW7Suh8NfuI/AAAAAAAAbJs/dKrtB3ykNPQw4cqkJlbMC6iVi_TC9bQdgCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_0071.tif" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1365" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HoEKKtOC1wA/YW7Suh8NfuI/AAAAAAAAbJs/dKrtB3ykNPQw4cqkJlbMC6iVi_TC9bQdgCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_0071.tif" /></a><span><a name='more'></a></span></div><p style="text-align: left;"></p><div style="text-align: center;">Hello again to all my friends!</div>Original Date 11/14/21: <div>I'm not sure what came over me today, but I decided it was time for a life update since it has been long overdue. First, of all, I'm grateful in all seasons! Life is so unpredictable, one minute you are on top of the world the next minute you are faced with hurdles you couldn't have fathomed. I truly believe that I am seasoned, I'm learning to be positive always. </div><div><br /></div><div><b><i>Warning it gets very personal! </i></b><div><br />Before we get into the meat of this post, I would like to share a quick note I wrote to myself on October 4, 2021: </div><div><b style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 20px;">Dear Melesia, </b> <blockquote><div><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px;">I forgive you for always taking more than you should. I forgive you for allowing others to take your kindness for weakness. You are strong, beautiful and resilient. You are deserving of all that you give and all that you aspire to achieve. You know your worth and know the things you desire. Stop settling for these temporary feelings. By loving on yourself you will teach others how to love you. STOP settling! STOP people pleasing!</span></div></blockquote><p style="text-align: left;">I'm very big on people treating me how I deserve to be treated. I guess you can say I was one of those who was "raised on love", I don't tolerate certain behavior when it comes to how I interact with people and how they interact with me. I approach everyone with openness and love, in return that is all I ask for. I understood a long time ago that people will do what you allow them to do. This has taught me to NOT be silent when someone does something that doesn't align with my being. </p><div style="text-align: left;">The past three years have been challenging. Sis is a victor and not a victim, and I will no longer give light to the things that aren't serving my highest good.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">On July 15, 2021, my dad transitioned, he passed away unexpectedly and at a very young age. My dad was the owner of a popular Jamaica restaurant in Philadelphia. He was on vacation in Jamaica when things took a turn. I was in disbelief, mostly because I'd gotten the same call from family members telling me my old man passed away three times over the course of some years. The first time I experienced the pain of thinking my dad had transitioned, I was maybe twelve years old. I recall my mom telling me my dad had gotten shot while he was in his restaurant. I remember crying uncontrollably and my cousins trying to cheer me up. He was in the restaurant when a customer opened fire and caught him in the glutes. He survived, but the rumors spread swiftly and incorrectly. When things blew over my cousins would tease me about it for years and even weaponize it when they saw fit. Eventually, they forgot and the teasing stopped. </div><p style="text-align: left;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iNw512I5w2w/YW7gF40QB8I/AAAAAAAAbJ4/zKiJwXOqZ-kbIy9a1PmlhymxDo-S84VDgCLcBGAsYHQ/s712/IMG_1404.heic" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="320" data-original-width="712" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iNw512I5w2w/YW7gF40QB8I/AAAAAAAAbJ4/zKiJwXOqZ-kbIy9a1PmlhymxDo-S84VDgCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_1404.heic" /></a></div>The second time I received a call that my dad passed away, I was on active duty in the military. We were in Florida for fleet week, I was excited to be in Florida because it was also my birthday week. I was out and about getting ready to celebrate my birthday with my shipmate. We were driving from Orlando to Miami, When my phone rang, it was my cousin informing me that my dad had passed away. She didn't know how or when it happened. I screamed and the car got silent, everyone was wondering what was wrong. I cried and cried as one of the riders held and console me. I was finally able to get it out and everyone just remained quiet. <p></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">The third time I received the call was a month before my dad parted. My aunt called me frantically. She mentioned that he might've had a heart attack. He was experiencing chest discomfort and thought his blood pressure might have been high. This happened right after we start communicating and working on repairing our relationship. He was on the phone with my uncle before this happened. Somehow they lost connection and it caused an uproar. Once I got off the phone with my aunt, I called my dad. He picked up on the first ring and I let out a sigh. My exact words to him were "I'm so happy to hear your voice", he let out this grunt and I asked him what was wrong. He went over his symptoms and I asked him to go to the emergency room. He didn't seem thrilled about my idea, so I called back up. He ended up going to the hospital and he was admitted for the night.</p>
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<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">The fourth and last time I was leaving Coney Island a well-known amusement park in Brooklyn, New York, I was with my boys. I was feeling off before we got there, This funny feeling came on suddenly, then when we got there nothing was aligning the way it should, so I decided to leave. My oldest was upset because he was looking forward to a day of fun. I just couldn't knock the weird feeling I was having. I got in my car to head back home and the traffic was so thick I was becoming so annoyed. Then my phone rang, I answered it to hear my aunt crying and screaming your dad is gone. The weird feeling I was having faded, as I was now filled with emotions of disbelief, of course, I remained calm, I didn't want to get into a panic. I called my brother who was with my dad, but he didn't answer. I called a cousin of mine who is back home and he tried to reassure me that what I was hearing was true. I still didn't believe what was going on, my body started giving me little confirmation that this was in fact true. I started crying but was able to make it to an area that was close to the house and safe. I couldn't hold it in anymore, I started shaking and crying even more. At that point, I just wanted to be in the presence of my mom. In her presence, I would feel safe and comforted. </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><div>Let's take things back a little:</div><blockquote><div>October 7, 2020</div></blockquote><div><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"></p><blockquote><span style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Dear Dad, </span></blockquote><p></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"></p><blockquote><span style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">You are a shitty parent because you refuse to take accountability for your lack of effort and actions. You have been one-sided about ALL the relationships in your life and not just with your children. A relationship works BOTH ways. You have to apply the same, in your case SOME effort. The same effort you put into providing for yourself should be the same effort you put into a relationship with your children. You think you don’t need your children to survive, you don’t have to work towards a relationship with us. Most girls aspire to marry a man like their dad. I aspire to NEVER encounter a man like you on that level of intimacy. I’m sorry it took me this long to recognize the bond that we possessed. </span></blockquote><p>I wrote this because I was mad at my dad. The reality is he wasn't a shitty parent, but my expectations were. This was the longest period we went without speaking to each other. Life threw us both curveballs and we needed each other at the time, neither of us knew how to deal with our own shit and be there for each other. Which pretty much sucked, I expected him to understand what I was dealing with despite what he was facing and this was wrong on so many levels, I've definitely learned a very valuable lesson. During our time of not speaking, I wanted to call him so many times or even pop up and surprise him like I normally would. I forced myself to pretend like I didn't care and our not speaking wasn't bothering me, but it was. I was trying so hard to not care and was very tired of always being the bigger person. We are both so very stubborn, it's pretty sad how childish these behaviors are. I'm so glad I can identify this and do what I can to work on it. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvGMFSc8C5Bsbo91LJEc1PTqqmvcWBM7YOMTN28iEsdDkrJ7wtuNrH9L9H0bt6Jz66_sSxIWgRyf9Sd6K8CyjyKsojEXol-886pC3wgXqZ_lShItd0AMdwd4XfH046oqo8Us2bUOlUYkSJz0AENkn-HHEk_UAH6DnxwZLJr6STkBOKfVMO3mng48eZrA/s910/Screen%20Shot%202022-11-26%20at%2012.42.12%20PM.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="302" data-original-width="910" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvGMFSc8C5Bsbo91LJEc1PTqqmvcWBM7YOMTN28iEsdDkrJ7wtuNrH9L9H0bt6Jz66_sSxIWgRyf9Sd6K8CyjyKsojEXol-886pC3wgXqZ_lShItd0AMdwd4XfH046oqo8Us2bUOlUYkSJz0AENkn-HHEk_UAH6DnxwZLJr6STkBOKfVMO3mng48eZrA/s16000/Screen%20Shot%202022-11-26%20at%2012.42.12%20PM.png" /></a></div><p>Knowing my dad's background as a child, knowing he never healed from his own pain and suffering, he did the best he could. I never questioned his love, but I did question his parenting style. It was so different from my mom. I read a quote that said <i><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86); color: #4d5156;">“</span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="color: #5f6368;">People raised</span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86); color: #4d5156;"> on </span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="color: #5f6368;">love</span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86); color: #4d5156;"> see things differently than </span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="color: #5f6368;">those raised</span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86); color: #4d5156;"> on </span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="color: #5f6368;">survival</span></i><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);"><i style="color: #4d5156;">”</i> this resonated with my soul. </span><span face="arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);">It was in that moment I realized that love had different ways of showing up from our parents. I was too busy comparing the relationship I was having with my mom and how different it was from my dad's. I was busy subconsciously comparing the false narratives I would see on Tv and my reality. All I wanted was a Carl Winslow or a Philip Banks, I wanted the relationship they had with their children. </span></p><p><span style="background-color: white;"><b style="caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);">How unfair was it for me to want my dad to live up to men that were made up for a role? </b><span style="caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);">If only I appreciated what I had. If only I </span></span><span style="caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);">understood the power of being grateful and appreciated the efforts my parents made. </span></p><p><span><span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);">My dad tried the best he could and </span><span style="caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);">although I wanted more I've learned to be grateful. I came to terms with this Mother's Day 2020 When my dad reached out via text after almost a year of not speaking. I decide in my mind that moving forward I would love on him while he was alive. Little did I know that this time would be very short. I was mad at myself for taking so long to come to terms with this. I was angry with him because I felt like he knew he was sick and didn't get the care he needed. </span></span></p><p><span><span style="caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86);">Every day Since May 10, 2020, I would assure my dad that I loved him after every conversation. We were turning over a new leaf. </span></span></p><p><b style="caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86); color: #4d5156;">To be Continued....</b></p><p><b style="caret-color: rgb(77, 81, 86); color: #4d5156;"><br /></b></p></div><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">I am and will always be Victorious! </span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"><br /></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-31879615442385249612022-11-24T09:33:00.004-05:002022-11-24T09:33:42.444-05:00PLACES TO VOLUNTEER THIS THANKSGIVING IN NEW YORK <p> <b style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;"> </span></b></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCvCj2O-VFgw5xStlaxEl-ixaqEJtdT0nlLWn6kQbK3v8c1YtBIgRI_P5wfARpIJIl-3iJdHEyDwhak1nL2TupF7rgRM-if_Y_eTyLKVslYyvk_6lDksSROLhNgI_fJA0phqz06bLUuoKGuAm_k4JJVqpoPf1hdlXBJE9LP1Nr-txl3x4YehVIo6scWw/s509/istockphoto-1218067733-170667a.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="339" data-original-width="509" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCvCj2O-VFgw5xStlaxEl-ixaqEJtdT0nlLWn6kQbK3v8c1YtBIgRI_P5wfARpIJIl-3iJdHEyDwhak1nL2TupF7rgRM-if_Y_eTyLKVslYyvk_6lDksSROLhNgI_fJA0phqz06bLUuoKGuAm_k4JJVqpoPf1hdlXBJE9LP1Nr-txl3x4YehVIo6scWw/s16000/istockphoto-1218067733-170667a.jpeg" /></a><span><a name='more'></a></span></b></div><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">There are many good reasons to volunteer during the holidays - they give you a chance to work with people, giving back something while also feeling good on Thanksgiving. However, don't feel like volunteering is near impossible. There are numerous locations where you can volunteer this Thanksgiving! <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">If you're looking for a Thanksgiving tradition that's a little different, consider volunteering at either a homeless shelter or food pantry. You'll get the chance to give back and help people in need while getting to know them and enjoying the holiday.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Another great option is volunteering with local organizations offering educational or conservation opportunities. This can allow you to learn new things, make new friends, and help improve the communities around you.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">No matter what type of volunteer opportunity interests you, there are plenty of places in New York where you can have a great time helping others this Thanksgiving. Give some thought to your favorite options, and start planning your volunteer holiday today! <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">A wonderful way to give back is by volunteering, having fun, and making new friends. There are numerous locations in New York where you can find a great volunteer opportunity - here are a few to get you started:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">Homeless Shelter:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> Giving back to those in need can be a great Thanksgiving tradition - volunteering at a homeless shelter is a great way to do that. You'll get to work with people and help make homelessness less commonplace while getting to know them and enjoying the holiday.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">Food Pantry: </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Another excellent option for Volunteering on Thanksgiving is volunteering with a food pantry. This offers the opportunity to give back to those in need by helping them get food during the holiday season. You'll also get to enjoy the holiday meal together as a result!<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Local Education Or Conservation Organization:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> If you're looking for something different than traditional charity events, consider volunteering with an environmental or educational organization. This can allow you to learn something new, make new friends, and help improve your community simultaneously.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">WALL STREET VOLUNTEERS<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">If you're feeling patriotically inclined, plenty of organizations in New York would love your help on Thanksgiving. Here are a few options for volunteers:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">1. American Red Cross:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> This organization provides shelter and food to those in need during emergencies, and it's always looking for volunteers to help out at its shelters and distribution centers. There are also opportunities to volunteer as an auxiliary worker or disaster relief volunteer.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">2. Salvation Army: </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">This organization partners with other agencies to provide meals and emergency services to low-income New Yorkers in need during the holidays. You can sign up as a cook, corps member, or donor helper.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">3. United Way of Westchester & Putnam County: </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> Volunteers work directly with needy families during the holiday season. Help can include stocking shelves at a local food pantry, delivering food baskets, or helping to put together toy donations for children who will receive them at Christmas time.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">4. Food Bank For New York City: </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> Volunteers with this organization pack supermarket bags full of groceries that will be distributed to hunger-relief programs throughout the city. You can also donate money or items like canned goods, nonperishables, clothing, and toys.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">CENTRAL PARK VOLUNTEERING<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">One of the best methods to participate with your community during Thanksgiving is by volunteering in your local park. There are many opportunities to volunteer in Central Park this year, and you can choose from various activities such as gardening, raking leaves, walking dogs, or helping with cookouts.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">If cooking is not your thing, there are plenty of other ways to contribute to the holiday festivities. You can help set up and pack away tables, offer supplies to volunteers working inside the park, or help wave visitors in and out. No matter what you choose to do, be sure to reach out to the park's staff beforehand for more information. Thanks for contributing to Thanksgiving celebrations in Central Park this year!<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">WILLIAMSBURG COMMUNITY SERVICES INCORPORATED VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Williamsburg Community Services always needs volunteers to assist with various tasks each year. This year, we are especially interested in individuals who can help us with our Thanksgiving events. Below are some volunteer opportunities that you might be interested in:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Setup and take down tables<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Assist with food preparation and serving<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Sort donations and set up donation bins<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Staff the information booth<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;">v<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Take photos and videos for our website or social media<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Williamsburg Community Services is a proud member of the Salvation Army.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">BROADWAY SERVE<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">1. Broadway Serve is a volunteer organization that serves on Thanksgiving day in New York City. Volunteers must work at various locations throughout the city, such as food pantries and shelters. The organization also relies on volunteers to staff its headquarters and distribute turkeys to those in need.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">2. Those interested in volunteering with Broadway Serve should first contact the organization to inquire about available positions. After registering for orientation, volunteers will be assigned to a location and begin preparing for Thanksgiving Day. Volunteers will help prepare food, serve meals, distribute turkeys, and more throughout the day.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">3. To learn more about volunteering with Broadway Serve, or to donate to its cause, visit their website or Facebook page. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">4. Broadway Serve is a worthy organization committed to providing service on Thanksgiving day. Don't hesitate to contact them for more information if you are interested in helping out.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjI6qBmosubvdhbKcwCBXuJ7wmfxUTq_hPCKan8ixEcwwKwJv6AM4ByWFMMwGAbxI1AtkmuF4QwN7LoJIo0GKgPg2Z8z9hhj1Lietroc2SkqNu3PSoLWmoIIkpZGz3-fRRvWiAMzYUVhyftHKlwLKnHptewovjK9SroNYFjMWCOKXLgWPuofXdClmnSOg/s3418/Melesia%20Robinson%20Coutur%202.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1506" data-original-width="3418" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjI6qBmosubvdhbKcwCBXuJ7wmfxUTq_hPCKan8ixEcwwKwJv6AM4ByWFMMwGAbxI1AtkmuF4QwN7LoJIo0GKgPg2Z8z9hhj1Lietroc2SkqNu3PSoLWmoIIkpZGz3-fRRvWiAMzYUVhyftHKlwLKnHptewovjK9SroNYFjMWCOKXLgWPuofXdClmnSOg/s16000/Melesia%20Robinson%20Coutur%202.png" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 20pt; line-height: 30.666664123535156px;">WHERE CAN YOU VOLUNTEER THIS THANKSGIVING IN NEW YORK?<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">There are numerous opportunities to give back, this Thanksgiving in New York City. Here are a few ideas:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">1. Volunteer at a soup kitchen or food pantry: </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Many organizations serve to feed the hungry on Thanksgiving Day and always need extra hands. Contact your local soup kitchen or food pantry to see if they could use some volunteers.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">2. Spend time with the elderly:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> Many seniors will be spending Thanksgiving alone and would love some company. You can volunteer at a nursing home or senior center or even make phone calls to check in on elderly neighbors.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">3. Help out at a local animal shelter:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> The holiday season can be tough on protection, as they often see an increase in abandoned animals. Give some love to your furry friends this Thanksgiving by volunteering at your local shelter.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">4. Collect donations for a toy drive:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> Many children won't have much to celebrate this holiday season, so help make their Christmas bright by collecting donations for a toy drive. Toys can be donated to local hospitals, churches, or community centers.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">5. Serve meals to the homeless:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> In addition to soup kitchens, many organizations serve meals to the homeless on Thanksgiving Day. Contact your local homeless shelter or search online for other opportunities to provide for those in need over the Christmas season<o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">LOCAL PLACES TO VOLUNTEER THIS THANKSGIVING IN NEW YORK<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">If you're looking for a method to help others this Thanksgiving, there are plenty of local opportunities in New York. From serving meals at a soup kitchen to spending time with seniors at a nursing home, there are many ways to make a difference this holiday season.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">Here are a few local places to volunteer this Thanksgiving in New York:<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">1. The Bowery Mission:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">The Bowery Mission has served the homeless and hungry in New York since 1879. They offer hot meals, clothing, and shelter to those in need and rely on volunteers to help make it all happen. If you're interested in lending a hand this Thanksgiving, they always need people to help serve meals.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">2. Citymeals on Wheels:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> Citymeals on Wheels is an organization that delivers meals to homebound seniors throughout New York City. This Thanksgiving, they're looking for volunteers to help provide hot meals to seniors who may not have anyone else to spend the holiday with. If you have some free time on Thanksgiving Day, consider giving back by helping make someone's holiday a little brighter.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">3. The Salvation Army:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> The Salvation Army is another excellent organization to volunteer with this Thanksgiving if you're looking to help those in need. They offer services to those in need, including hot meals, clothing, and shelter. They also have opportunities for volunteers to help with their annual Toys for Tots drive, which collects toys for children<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">4. The Food Bank for New York City:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> The main organization in the city that fights hunger is the Food Bank for New York City, and they're always in need of volunteers to help with food distribution during the holidays. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24.533334732055664px;">5. Habitat for Humanity:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;"> Habitat for Humanity is a global organization that builds homes for low-income families. They have an annual tradition of building houses over the Thanksgiving weekend, and they're always in need of volunteers to help out.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 16.866666793823242px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 21.466665267944336px;">Once you've found a place to volunteer, show up on the day of Thanksgiving (or whatever day or time they require) and lend a helping hand! With so many people in need this time of year, your efforts will be greatly appreciated by those who receive your help.<o:p></o:p></span></p><style class="WebKit-mso-list-quirks-style">
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</style><div class="blogger-post-footer">Please note that every picture taken on my blog belongs to me, unless otherwise stated. These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-64474691392459938992022-11-21T11:18:00.002-05:002023-01-19T23:37:41.222-05:00HEAL THE ROOT<p> </p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-X1SOFZPQsHM/YJGb2e-OMbI/AAAAAAABBDo/WIU0vT1diNcLdZrlnGA6oivkBsxdifbdQCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/f30b46dc-bf01-4a56-9538-9f0e3db1aa73.JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-X1SOFZPQsHM/YJGb2e-OMbI/AAAAAAABBDo/WIU0vT1diNcLdZrlnGA6oivkBsxdifbdQCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/f30b46dc-bf01-4a56-9538-9f0e3db1aa73.JPG" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dress: Custom <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a> Shoes: Alexandre Birman Cake: @_kakesbyk</td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><span><a name='more'></a></span><span><div style="text-align: center;"><b><i><span style="font-size: x-large;"> It's waking up and choosing rich vibes for me!</span></i></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikybkKRtu5-Mm-MZhfFDnE2FymoNlLphz45rK8LWiTkgZqZd6P7ni1Qx5WnNWTUQAiWCAQmtdteNFqGslxPrI7gyoaRBJCZcEOuw3Bl_Z0TvRkdYFieh5d9VTccGWyiiGKRtIqQxJ8O5YsvatV8CdKSAJiVULSlnEii0KgBRjqkzL741o78fdBu4WbsA/s828/C6FA26DF-E57B-4DE3-8216-F6DBDC624E77.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="552" data-original-width="828" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikybkKRtu5-Mm-MZhfFDnE2FymoNlLphz45rK8LWiTkgZqZd6P7ni1Qx5WnNWTUQAiWCAQmtdteNFqGslxPrI7gyoaRBJCZcEOuw3Bl_Z0TvRkdYFieh5d9VTccGWyiiGKRtIqQxJ8O5YsvatV8CdKSAJiVULSlnEii0KgBRjqkzL741o78fdBu4WbsA/s16000/C6FA26DF-E57B-4DE3-8216-F6DBDC624E77.JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: left;">Greetings Earthlings, <br />Here's a post that has been sitting in my draft since last year, I'll be keeping most of the contexts as is. I'm so glad I didn't post this when I initially wrote it because I have learned so much since then. The bright side of this is two posts in one month. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">I celebrated my Thrity-six birthday a few days ago and It was magical. I've never had a birthday where I didn't celebrate and have blast. My mother set the tone for me, I recall my earliest birthday celebration at the age of 8. I recall my mom fussing with my dad on the phone for financial support for a Birthday party. It was always a struggle with him, but it never stopped my mom from putting together the most incredible birthday parties. I made it my duty to never depend on anyone to have a good time on my birthday. I learned early that it's easy for someone to steal your joy. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div>I'm inspired to share a few of my journal entries: are you ready?</div><div>Leggoo…</div><div><br /></div><div>1/31/2021</div><div><div>When my world started crumbling my thought were I needed to find myself in church and become a full-time Christian, with the fear of not knowing and wanting answers, after everything that had happened and was happening around me. I wanted to feel and know that I was being protected mentally, physically and spiritually. I found something greater, I found spiritually and myself in the process. I recognized the value of having a relationship with myself, It is all the power and magic I needed. The more I fell in love with God, me in my highest form, the more powerful I will be and this is how I will protect myself. I trust that I am guided in the right direction as my footsteps are divinely guided. Anything that doesn't align with my future can't exist. I will shed without feeling guilty or feeling the need to apologize. I will walk the path written for me and not the path others want for me. My forcefield is protecting me from harmful energies visible and unseen.</div><div><br /></div><div>10/7/2021</div><div>I shrink myself because I don't want to feel like I’m a burden to anyone. I started recognizing that I struggle with asking for help for the same reason. I was never comfortable asking my dad for things, growing up it almost felt like I was being forced too mostly around my birthday. I wish my parents knew the lifelong trauma associated with this act. As a child, I would comfortably ask my mom for whatever I needed, when she didn't have the feeling was different from when I would hear my dad saying he doesn't have it. My mom would suggest that I ask my dad if she didn't have it, but I hated the thought of asking him and the feelings associated with it. I hated it for many reasons but here I'll list two. One: he would always say he doesn't have it, it never matter when it was it was always a no. Two: It almost seemed like he wasn't even trying to be there for me, for us. I've forgiven him and myself for all of this, I've grown to learn that all he was doing had nothing to do with me and more to do with himself. I had way too many expectations as a child that he wasn't capable of and that was wrong of me. I also understood that as a child it was necessary. Now that I am an adult I recognize that everything that has happened was for a reason. </div><div><br />Today, I realized where it all stemmed from. Growing up I would overhear my mom asking my dad for financial help and he would always say he didn't have it. There were times when he would send it but the memories I have are of the ones where he made it seem like helping my mom was a chore. I recall crying and telling my mom to never ask him for help for me. For this reason, I never gave anyone the opportunity to tell me no. I wanted to fend for myself! This played a major role in my decision to join the military, I wanted to create a life where I wouldn't have to depend on anyone. At the time, I failed to realize how this would affect me in other ways. </div><div><br /></div></div><div>It's very important that I shared these journal entries, when it comes to my birthday, sis is going to go all out celebrating and she's not asking anyone for permission. I don't allow anyone to disappoint me. This has worked for me in both good and bad ways. It was always hard for people in my life to plan something special. In the process of trying to protect myself, I created this self-centered monster that I had no clue existed. I'm glad no one was offended by my ignorance. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Moving forward: <br />The soul knows exactly what it needs. Trust your gut and your guides. For years I thought I was giving myself to all the wrong people, suffering many heartaches and wrongdoing. I then learned that those wrongs were lessons and preparation for what was ahead. When you've mastered the art of healing, loving through the pain without judgment, unconditionally and abundantly you'll reap many blessings. While the pain often feels like it's not one I could sustain, I stayed on the course I didn't change who I was because of a little pain, Although, it was hard I continued to be who I was sent here to be. A lover, a giver, a healer,.... etc</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLiWa9SO51BEKHB5fAOT-UyFMydxAzn5W9ceGFuRoCJfx8CMsCOwUYkAYaMWhVHHFohnDMBHO2UCzwUE1mQT0uDNJeeAxIoSMQMWGXNIZsG2ORd9tmx-2GUTjL9JNoSJsCaprxqrVmEhjfKy-K4moMesT8la_wHjkpWs00Z5_eQdnewtX4UdYWR6D08g/s4032/IMG_8892.HEIC" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLiWa9SO51BEKHB5fAOT-UyFMydxAzn5W9ceGFuRoCJfx8CMsCOwUYkAYaMWhVHHFohnDMBHO2UCzwUE1mQT0uDNJeeAxIoSMQMWGXNIZsG2ORd9tmx-2GUTjL9JNoSJsCaprxqrVmEhjfKy-K4moMesT8la_wHjkpWs00Z5_eQdnewtX4UdYWR6D08g/s16000/IMG_8892.HEIC" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Views from Equinox Hotel New York City </td></tr></tbody></table><div style="text-align: left;">I never take for granted the people that are perfectly placed in my life. I believe each person has an incredible purpose. I've been truly blessed to awaken- finding my divine purpose and a complete understanding of the people in this lifetime. I've innerstand that all the people God gifted me are for a season and I was seasonal to those I parted ways with. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Each birthday I get to celebrate the many milestones, the sheddings and the many rebirths. I enter each new season with ease and leave the creator in full control. This birthday was no different from the others, God always makes sure I have the financial gains to create the memories I desire and I and always grateful for that. I booked a Junior Suite at the Equinox Hotel in NYC, it was such a beautiful experience. I got sick right before my birthday so I didn't get to create my dress the way I initially envisioned it. Overall, it was truly one for the books. My eyes were opened to so much and for that I am grateful! </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">I am and will always be Victorious! </span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.199999809265137px; margin: 0in; text-align: center;"><b style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: x-large; font-stretch: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"><br /></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3New York, NY, USA40.7127753 -74.005972812.402541463821152 -109.1622228 69.023009136178842 -38.849722799999995tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-31723986874972164162022-11-01T18:57:00.009-04:002022-11-27T14:08:37.584-05:00I AM NOT MY TRAUMA<p> </p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEErn0ILIeTR2k3I9CimQTtmufj1iuAxftIdAxwPuxOcpSP6j2WWwzAk_oiMGZbfLePnTga51aI0Xf-4i3NW2r56PEQLOUznHgHAZnPUocmpFKQfoWwaMb_RQchJJRj9pR17i5emle52MuMm8juCjOEc6dpfnoVB6TX4NhUJylNY996Ul_gxCAbysZqg/s2080/CC87F533-7502-4614-B26B-AC345C9DD2B1.jpeg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2080" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEErn0ILIeTR2k3I9CimQTtmufj1iuAxftIdAxwPuxOcpSP6j2WWwzAk_oiMGZbfLePnTga51aI0Xf-4i3NW2r56PEQLOUznHgHAZnPUocmpFKQfoWwaMb_RQchJJRj9pR17i5emle52MuMm8juCjOEc6dpfnoVB6TX4NhUJylNY996Ul_gxCAbysZqg/s16000/CC87F533-7502-4614-B26B-AC345C9DD2B1.jpeg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Blazer: Zara Shoes: Sharkina by <a href="https://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/women/shoes/sneakers/" target="_blank">Christain Louboutin</a> Bag: Mia Mini Knot Padded Top Bag by <a href="https://www.bergdorfgoodman.com/p/a-w-a-k-e-mode-mia-mini-knot-padded-top-handle-bag-prod172980049" target="_blank">A.W.A.K.E Mode</a></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><b style="text-align: left;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif"><br /></span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><b style="text-align: left;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">(Warning this post might be triggering, the intention of this post is not to trigger anyone but to talk about my experience.)</span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span><a name='more'></a></span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="text-align: left;">Greetings Earthlings, </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="text-align: left;">I keep professing that I'll be more active on my blog, but honestly, I'm going to accept that what I am doing is the best I can do. Sometimes I wish I was one of those bloggers that make a post daily or even more frequently. I've accepted that I am not them, this is me and the best that I can be. I believe that I am going to be enriched by my journey because I have learned to kill comparison. This is it; this is me, it's my blog and I can post when I feel led to. I believe that those who should receive the message will. I was led to write a post on some things that I didn't know were influencing the intimate relationships I've been having. We never truly know the effects of our experiences until it hits us in the face. Human beings are so good at masking pain, instead of recognizing the pain and learning methods of healing, in some cases we try to forget it ever happened. </span></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"> <b><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">How old were you when someone of the opposite sex made a pass at you that made you feel uncomfortable? </span></b></h3><p> <span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">I was nine years old when this happened to me. I'll talk about this encounter before I get to the point I'm trying to make. </span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">I recall it being a summer evening I was walking side by side with my mom. I was wearing a t-shirt and some shorts. My mom is very fashionable so we were always well-dressed whenever we would go out. An older man who might have been in his late forties or early Fifties at the time was coming in the opposite direction of myself and my mom. My mom saw the way the man was looking at us/me, so she held my hand a little tighter and watched him as he went by us. He mumbled "Sexy" under his breath as he went by, he turned around to check us out and my mom asked him what he was looking at. I would have assumed he was looking at my mom, but he made a comment that stuck with me. He said, "It's not my fault she looks better than you", my mom was furious. She is very feisty and would take on any battle to protect herself and her children. The commotion caused a big crowd to gather around as people heard what was happening and came to our defense. My mom was almost in tears, I could hear the pain in her voice. </span><span face="Calibri, sans-serif"> </span></p><p><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">This incident scared me, and I never wanted to wear shorts again in my life. I would shy away from certain clothing items. I would cry and plead with my mom when she would buy or try to get me to wear them. Luckily for me, my mom wasn't pushy, and she didn't force me to wear things I didn't feel comfortable in. At one point in my life, I wanted to become a Muslim, I wanted to cover up to protect myself from these predators. I’ve grown to understand that whether I wore fewer or more clothes, this wouldn’t have stopped me from being a victim of these assaults.</span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif"> </span></p><p><strong style="--tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-ring-color: rgba(51,168,204,0.5); --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; background-color: white; border: 0px; caret-color: rgb(56, 56, 56); color: #383838; font-family: Montserrat, sans-serif; font-size: 38px; left: -12px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; vertical-align: baseline; z-index: 10;">Nearly all sexual harassment at work goes unreported – and those who do report often see zero benefits.</strong></p><p><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">I've had several experiences where I was touched inappropriately without my consent. This shaped the relationships I had with my partners. When my partner would touch or grab me without my awareness it would make me aggressive. Not because I didn't want him to, but because of how I would always have to defend myself and my body. While I do desire to be touched and loved on, it wasn't being conveyed that way. As I’m typing this post, I recognize that my relationship with men would start off great. I would be shy but very loving until my partners gave me reasons not to trust them anymore, then I would go into resistance mode. I would still be open to certain behaviors, but my antennas were up, and this isn’t good for my health or the relationship. So how am I planning on coping?</span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif"> </span></p><p><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">The first thought I had was to leave when I no longer felt safe. Realistically, that’s all I’ve been doing. I’ve been running away from the problem. Running away is so overwhelming, but I refuse to exhaust myself in things I can’t control. I might have a different view later and I accept them as they come, but as of now running away isn’t an option.</span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghwsSyo_PZlZCH2KT9zAACMUZ4Ok47Fu2XEjEBTV5VUINpincqY2YBwsh2CyH4co9SU-XN_CglLYQAxNYWwpUjnkPpnLy23rzntVGovnE1HkgMkIWYIJha9PHI5xyrbMWsRoWGNoK0CFVYUtL054EVqLZvmEshGjBdTOf2WIcBUYOS8BLbLPJ4wqfj2g/s1170/IMG_6989.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1103" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghwsSyo_PZlZCH2KT9zAACMUZ4Ok47Fu2XEjEBTV5VUINpincqY2YBwsh2CyH4co9SU-XN_CglLYQAxNYWwpUjnkPpnLy23rzntVGovnE1HkgMkIWYIJha9PHI5xyrbMWsRoWGNoK0CFVYUtL054EVqLZvmEshGjBdTOf2WIcBUYOS8BLbLPJ4wqfj2g/s16000/IMG_6989.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photo Cred: Facebook </td></tr></tbody></table><p><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif">My mother was so protective of me, I grew up very sheltered I couldn’t spend nights at my family's or friend's house. If we were having a sleepover it was happening at my house. I participate in things and I didn't ask to do certain things; I was the child that was either always on the stoop or in my room. For a while, I didn't go places unless it was with my mom. When I turned eighteen my mom loosened the chokehold, she had on me. I still couldn't go out much. However, I grew to appreciate the way my mom protected me; I'll explain why later in this post. I was physically assaulted by two different guys that lived in the area. I never gave them reasons to think I was interested in them, nor did we exchange words on that level. I was in my late teenage years when I walked to the store that was right around the corner from my house. The guy that lived next door approached me on a bike and grabbed my ass, I got aggressive with him, pushed him away, and cursed at him, I knew I couldn't fight him off, he had an intimidating look, so I ran home to get my mom. She fought most of the battles I couldn't and this leaves me concerned. She has never experienced being soft and standing in her feminine </span><span face="Calibri Light, sans-serif">energy. I'm sure this is a whole post itself. </span></p><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="text-align: left;">One day I was on my stoop, which was kind of the hangout spot. Not many people were outside, I was out catching some fresh air when a guy from the area and a guy from the building next door (not the same guy from above) came by to engage in some light conversations. I can't even remember how we got to him assaulting me, but he did. It seemed it was a bet he made with the guy next door because he thought it was hysterical. My mom wasn't home when he grabbed me inappropriately, I went inside the house silently and clearly upset at what had occurred. I went upstairs, and I poured some salt into my hand, I grabbed two plastic bags and ran back down. When I got back outside, he was sitting in the spot that I was in I went by him grabbed some rocks to fill my bag, and then let him have it. I won't go into all the details, but he apologized and left the scene. Years later, I found out he was arrested for sexually assaulting a minor. Go figure!</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNS4XY8SnfhuODF4zzM6u-mZ6y2HQz44hcyu_vxl6C-CnboLM3tFaifjBMDQ0bMAPhcSBLqcmORq6YAfnkhgx8phrH5OqHRc0hPF67Gk48H_XqAZxwQo-GhQN-uVVRPyEGeakQd39-MiPLPezTwBqwfOc5hJRRAPO1yZ03_SBrnqBOpxRqvFk1UltLyw/s1012/Screen%20Shot%202022-10-16%20at%207.11.52%20PM.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="398" data-original-width="1012" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNS4XY8SnfhuODF4zzM6u-mZ6y2HQz44hcyu_vxl6C-CnboLM3tFaifjBMDQ0bMAPhcSBLqcmORq6YAfnkhgx8phrH5OqHRc0hPF67Gk48H_XqAZxwQo-GhQN-uVVRPyEGeakQd39-MiPLPezTwBqwfOc5hJRRAPO1yZ03_SBrnqBOpxRqvFk1UltLyw/s16000/Screen%20Shot%202022-10-16%20at%207.11.52%20PM.png" /></a></div><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;">I quit almost every job I ever had because I was being harassed by a worker of the opposite sex. I'll tell you guys about the two, which I regret not reporting. I worked at Target for a few months the team member was a security guard, he would creepily walk by just to have light conversations, it started off cool and didn't seem like it would eventually be a problem. Then he started telling me I was beautiful, he would compliment my smile or the fragrance I was wearing, this went on for days, I made it very clear that I wasn't interested and that I had a boyfriend at the time. He was big and intimidating so I just stopped showing up to work. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;">I worked at Sears for two weeks or less, I quit because I was being harassed by the security guard, he was an older guy. He would call me while I'm at the register, to tell me how beautiful I was looking and that he was watching me. It was so uncomfortable and creepy. At the time I had a friend that was working there as well, I told her what was happening, and I stopped showing up to work. I remember thinking I was new, and I didn’t want to be the problem, while I got the job because I wanted to make my own money I left because it was the easy thing to do. The thought that I could just get another job and the fact that I would never have to see those guys again helped drive my decision to leave. I didn’t think at the time that it could happen to someone else and that they were the ones that needed to leave. </span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;">There was one incident I got very close to reporting, but I didn't, I didn't because I felt bad for the loser. I was a new Navy seaman on my boat when a shipmate grabbed my ass, he was of a higher rank. I got aggressive with him, and he begged me not to report it. He apologized and mentioned that he was transferring soon and that I wouldn't see him around anymore.</span></p></span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiATGCJY4r3_JvYCPXPplZIjaNKcZJ7huIcdCVcJWHCvNJuY70qHlj3WUDdqGhJA-ECP7NYSx-naXH2ZtQxOM1IRJ8CiuU3jLwbkTRK6k7MGoT9JHUzqEQf8fMAaE_gCQ9DpEXFoAz1M3H1wRKZBycQyyYuEbIypW6VJi9Nb54HSvNzvIP7UkhT45pXsg/s3244/IMG_5698.tif" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3244" data-original-width="2268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiATGCJY4r3_JvYCPXPplZIjaNKcZJ7huIcdCVcJWHCvNJuY70qHlj3WUDdqGhJA-ECP7NYSx-naXH2ZtQxOM1IRJ8CiuU3jLwbkTRK6k7MGoT9JHUzqEQf8fMAaE_gCQ9DpEXFoAz1M3H1wRKZBycQyyYuEbIypW6VJi9Nb54HSvNzvIP7UkhT45pXsg/s16000/IMG_5698.tif" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Blazer: Zara Shoes: Maddie leather Ankle Strap by <a href="https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/alexandre-birman-maddie-leather-ankle-strap-sandals-0400014807591.html?dwvar_0400014807591_color=WHITE" target="_blank">Alexandre Birman</a> Bag: Mia Mini Knot Padded Top Bag by <a href="https://www.bergdorfgoodman.com/p/a-w-a-k-e-mode-mia-mini-knot-padded-top-handle-bag-prod172980049" target="_blank">A.W.A.K.E Mode</a></td></tr></tbody></table><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: large; margin: 0in; text-align: left;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif"> </span></p></td></tr></tbody></table><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: large; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;">While in the service I heard many stories of women who were sexually harassed and assaulted, and it made me grateful for the way my mom tried to protect me. While there was only so much, she could do I appreciate her efforts.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: large; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></p><span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: large; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;">I pushed all these things away and thought that was it, but it wasn't. It was clear when it was showing up in my marriage. I forgot all these things happened to me. My husband would touch me, and I would get aggressive and tell him not to touch me, sometimes I would even curse at him. I wasn't aware that I was doing this, it of course wasn't my intention. I always desired equal love, affection, and attention from the partners I choose to be with. So why was I being so cold when I was getting it from people, I do care about and love? My body was keeping the score. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: large; margin: 0in;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in;"><span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: 13.5pt;">It took a while, but eventually, I </span><span face="Calibri Light, sans-serif" style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">recognized the effects of what I have been through and how it was playing out in my relationships. </span><b><span style="font-family: inherit;">How often are we doing things unintentionally, without realizing how it affects</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"> </span></b></span><b style="font-family: inherit;">those around us? </b></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">I was led to write this post to release myself from the negative energy of the trauma associated with being assaulted by people without my consent, which I was holding in my system. I release it and I’m making a vow to do better whenever it shows up. I pray that I can recognize the effects of my actions that are hurting the people I love and the people that want to love me because we are equally deserving of this wondrous feeling. </span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_3h1OBeTTZ6GLpL7RUYB-hjset9HEbIEcKtrNS4zDvPcXQj0djhx78sLTtqmMpW3gA2X-QytgT4DuXBucPB9iV-Lrt_dTqBArjSji1N44NqpE-Xs-KB4uI4jZAySqYisJXpMDi6Xz7w4NZ5AVsnxpbkeqo2-wi8E38r7sumhQSvLP3jfRkaYm07_ZJA/s1541/9F67795E-F6A2-484F-9698-E5F150BBC9E0.tif" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1541" data-original-width="1170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_3h1OBeTTZ6GLpL7RUYB-hjset9HEbIEcKtrNS4zDvPcXQj0djhx78sLTtqmMpW3gA2X-QytgT4DuXBucPB9iV-Lrt_dTqBArjSji1N44NqpE-Xs-KB4uI4jZAySqYisJXpMDi6Xz7w4NZ5AVsnxpbkeqo2-wi8E38r7sumhQSvLP3jfRkaYm07_ZJA/s16000/9F67795E-F6A2-484F-9698-E5F150BBC9E0.tif" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Blazer: Zara Shoes: Sharkina by <a href="https://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/women/shoes/sneakers/" target="_blank">Christain Louboutin</a> Bag: Mia Mini Knot Padded Top Bag by <a href="https://www.bergdorfgoodman.com/p/a-w-a-k-e-mode-mia-mini-knot-padded-top-handle-bag-prod172980049" target="_blank">A.W.A.K.E Mode</a></td></tr></tbody></table><span face="Calibri Light, sans-serif" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: large;">I forgive myself for storing these traumas. I forgive myself for the survival patterns I picked up while enduring these traumas. Forgiving myself is accepting the things I can't change. I'm happy that I've been able to </span><span face="Calibri Light, sans-serif" style="font-size: medium;">recognize these behaviors and can now work on a way to move forward. I will also work on being more intentional with my words and aggression, they are my own and not to be placed on anyone else.</span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;"> </span><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;">I was led to write this post to release myself from the negative energy of the trauma associated with being assaulted by people without my consent, which I was holding in my system. While sharing my story and my experiences. I release it and I’m making a vow to do better whenever it shows up. I pray that I can recognize the effects of my actions that are hurting the people I love and the people that want to love me because we are equally deserving of the wondrous feeling. </span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span face=""Calibri Light", sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.5pt;">I decided to heal because I am ready to experience and fully embrace my soft girl era, Cheers to that! 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-53078093490515486632022-02-14T20:16:00.004-05:002022-02-14T20:16:51.968-05:00Learning To Love Myself Valentine's Day 2022<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEg64XL-EjWs00ZevQYWvfy18x6XQwLcT9GStIH2wQz0na-81VAZfBSUhKYwV9EOdOqej1ai1i77m5G89NQui0aKPUyBvUOkurDoJpLIaYZrdbedWSTB8wszlpOJ9A-_L1HoPP2jKxbZ7gFPVg1UH0zgRxCms42RntGZEfKJ9LDjZSiZCXEVWWmTOqk7vQ=s4032" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEg64XL-EjWs00ZevQYWvfy18x6XQwLcT9GStIH2wQz0na-81VAZfBSUhKYwV9EOdOqej1ai1i77m5G89NQui0aKPUyBvUOkurDoJpLIaYZrdbedWSTB8wszlpOJ9A-_L1HoPP2jKxbZ7gFPVg1UH0zgRxCms42RntGZEfKJ9LDjZSiZCXEVWWmTOqk7vQ=s16000" /></a>Happy Valentine's Day, 2022!</div><span><a name='more'></a></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">How often do you look in the mirror and tell the person looking back "I love you"? </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">How often do you give yourself a hug? How often do you give yourself a high five or a pat on the shoulders? </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">How often do you celebrate yourself? </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">These are all things I had to re-learn, I thought I was loving on myself, I learned that loving oneself would never leave you feeling dipleted and worn out. Loving yourself is when you can set healthy boundaries and not feel guilty about choosing you. It requires you to stand in love for yourself even when the people you love the most don't understand. </div><ul><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful for loving myself </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that I love and value myself </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful for being loved and supported </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful for being guided and supported </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful for divine connections </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful for being so intuitive </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful that my greatness is activated </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful for walking in my purpose </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful for being so amazing </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful to be so creative </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful to be so gifted and talented </li>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>I'm grateful to be divinely connected </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful I get to rewrite my version of the life I desire </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that I get a chance </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful I have the courage to share my journey </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that I am brave</li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that I am a go getter </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful I get to put me first </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that the source of my being is always working for me </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that God (source) has never failed me</li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that I believe in my powers </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that I am the luckiest girl in the world </li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-align: justify;">I'm grateful that abundance flow around and through me</li>
</ul><p>I no longer attach myself to things or people that doesn't align with <i>my purpose,</i> it's fuck you, I love you, it's balance. I would give so much of myself to other, and blame those people for not returning the love I give. I gave my energy so freely, the reality is most people are takers and they will take even from your empty cup. I gave so much of myself to others, I completely lost myself. My dad's transition wrapped up this image I had in my head that taught me such valuable lesson. Being selfish is such a healthy boundary , it's only perceived as a bad thing from the person who wants to benefiting from your willingness to give. According to the dictionary selfish means: <span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(32, 33, 36); color: #202124; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><i>(of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. </i></span></p><p><br /></p><p>It's not selfish to put yourself first, a taker prioritize their needs, they don't care how that need is met as long as it's met. I learned to put my needs first, when my needs are met then, I can genuinely give to those who are in need without emptying my cup. This doesn't make me selfish and considering my needs is self care. I was that girl that would give the shirt off my back to anyone in need, now, I'm the girl that knows I need my shirt as well, however, I'm willing to help you get a shirt that way I don't have to walk around without. </p><p><br /></p><p>The love I gave so freely I now give to myself. I learned that I'm a very important factor in every equation. I had to learn how to tell people I love - no. I am not here to please anyone, my people pleasing days are far behind me. If my "NO" offense you, that's your problem. It sounds very harsh, but people need to learn to accept that I am living this human experience as well, being a "YES" girl was distractive to my being and the life I'm working to build. If it's a "no" for me, it's a healthy choice I had to make for <i>MYSELF</i>, which no one else is going to consider. If that upsets you then I can't believe that you love me, you love the benefit of being in my space. The asker isn't going to consider how you saying "yes" effects your livelihood, because it's want they want to fill their need. Therefore, it's my duty to consider these things. </p><p><br /></p><p>I'm an amazing gift giver to everyone around me, now I'm an amazing gift giver to myself. This Valentine's Day I gifted myself things I've had my eyes on. These last few years I've been putting myself first and I have to admit, it feels amazing. I have to learn not to forget my kids in the process, because I like gifts too… JK! </p><p><br /></p><p>For Valentines day I gifted myself these beautiful black Astrid Patent Red Sole Pumps by Christian Louboutin </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjU9fHfCepw4DR-amfQCfjSrAX-6Lo4INtgPiFODLXHkDmqjA5OSHe6jp7mqVngcyBw8Z6nZuZCcoYNB4lAVFMXhmt6vHp5mey1JuFUlPB6S4KgTGItaPuIVGMmAq--dogVy7PPjZJmvzMJS7ejMAWY_kbTgg_sCg_pqefF2o2OybaHj3MaWMwSwQT9VA=s1618" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="670" data-original-width="1618" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjU9fHfCepw4DR-amfQCfjSrAX-6Lo4INtgPiFODLXHkDmqjA5OSHe6jp7mqVngcyBw8Z6nZuZCcoYNB4lAVFMXhmt6vHp5mey1JuFUlPB6S4KgTGItaPuIVGMmAq--dogVy7PPjZJmvzMJS7ejMAWY_kbTgg_sCg_pqefF2o2OybaHj3MaWMwSwQT9VA=s16000" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">And the Cabata Mini Spiked Textured-Leather Tote bag also by Christian Louboutin</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEg8pip0fAZI-3m9PvpUxDv-00POts7BiOo9yIzVE850eybVcHt1Xj7bqySg3USh1czfK31NYBsjgSVkS91jmvbhgL7pjg9s9RBElEDqx-a7FPyiER4ZLgu_smcaL6Z1sk8DfwuQDSlIk5M_wQqhI4m_MMfowoDCRYasihklyImOXYpfrEAj5Dyweei_5Q=s1264" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1264" data-original-width="772" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEg8pip0fAZI-3m9PvpUxDv-00POts7BiOo9yIzVE850eybVcHt1Xj7bqySg3USh1czfK31NYBsjgSVkS91jmvbhgL7pjg9s9RBElEDqx-a7FPyiER4ZLgu_smcaL6Z1sk8DfwuQDSlIk5M_wQqhI4m_MMfowoDCRYasihklyImOXYpfrEAj5Dyweei_5Q=w244-h400" width="244" /></a></div><p>It feels really good to have healthy boundaries and even more amazing to be loved by me. It's the gift that keeps on giving! </p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>PS: I LOVE YOU!</b></p><p><b>What did you gift yourself for Valentine's Day? </b></p><p><b>What have you done for yourself lately? </b></p><p><b>What healthy boundaries should you consider setting? </b></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: normal; white-space: pre-wrap;">My first publication is </span><span style="font-weight: normal; white-space: pre-wrap;">available on Amazon. </span><span style="font-weight: normal; white-space: pre-wrap;">Get your copy </span><b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PJ1D5S2/ref=mp_s_a_1_4_nodl?crid=MDAC4N3AEM46&keywords=%23sorrymelody&qid=1640995056&sprefix=+sorrymelody%2Caps%2C46&sr=8-4" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0) !important; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; transition: 0.2s ease-out; white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">here</a> </b><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">or type in #SorryMelody in the Amazon search </span>box.</span></span></p><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; 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font-family: helvetica; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important; font-size: 11.5pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">Thank you so much for subscribing, sharing, commenting and stopping by: </span><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important; font-size: 11.5pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">*</span></span></span></div></div></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Please note that every picture taken on my blog belongs to me, unless otherwise stated. These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-49928202465889727282022-01-02T12:19:00.004-05:002023-01-19T23:37:51.136-05:00#SorryMelody by Melesia Robinson<span></span><p></p><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjsW7zN49s_UPHDV1XvLc5MlCvzI3SQfaV7cUR_--1B7xDBD3ErmKCVs79VrpXOaeoVNrsDiNGrtwjA9H__6YXjLNOZPDkRFoNq3Kj6groOswUKfg1a0znz6xlPztnh6VnlKhszyACrcZ9ODAq9WhqUsAD_AWVO7Bo6GY-LJ4CvA7Y_fH8Oc9VhPZAg_A=s1600"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1000" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjsW7zN49s_UPHDV1XvLc5MlCvzI3SQfaV7cUR_--1B7xDBD3ErmKCVs79VrpXOaeoVNrsDiNGrtwjA9H__6YXjLNOZPDkRFoNq3Kj6groOswUKfg1a0znz6xlPztnh6VnlKhszyACrcZ9ODAq9WhqUsAD_AWVO7Bo6GY-LJ4CvA7Y_fH8Oc9VhPZAg_A=s16000" /></a><span><a name='more'></a></span></div><p></p><div class="kvgmc6g5 cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q" style="margin: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit; text-align: center; white-space: pre-wrap;">Happy New Yearrrrrrrrrrrr! </div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit; white-space: pre-wrap;">I have so much to catch you guys up on and I will. I'll be back on YouTube and back to a somewhat normal life. I hope you are all keeping it safe!</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit; white-space: pre-wrap;">Last year I did a thing; I published a story that needed to be told. I’ll have you know, I'm a big risk taker! Inside I revealed some of the things I gained from being broke, broken, and risky. <span style="font-family: inherit;">My goal is to sell 5,000 copies this week and I can't do that without you. (Call me crazy 😂) </span></div><div style="font-family: inherit; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">Can you help me? Get your copy </span></span><span style="font-size: x-large;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PJ1D5S2/ref=mp_s_a_1_4_nodl?crid=MDAC4N3AEM46&keywords=%23sorrymelody&qid=1640995056&sprefix=+sorrymelody%2Caps%2C46&sr=8-4" style="font-family: inherit; white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">here</a> </span><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">or type in <span style="font-size: medium;">#SorryMelody</span> in the Amazon search box.</span></div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div class="cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; text-align: start; white-space: pre-wrap; word-wrap: break-word;"><div><br /></div></div><div class="cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; text-align: start; white-space: pre-wrap; word-wrap: break-word;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I thought I was procrastinating, then I realized the time is now. - </span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a class="oajrlxb2 g5ia77u1 qu0x051f esr5mh6w e9989ue4 r7d6kgcz rq0escxv nhd2j8a9 nc684nl6 p7hjln8o kvgmc6g5 cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x jb3vyjys rz4wbd8a qt6c0cv9 a8nywdso i1ao9s8h esuyzwwr f1sip0of lzcic4wl gpro0wi8 q66pz984 b1v8xokw" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/sorrymelody?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZU1mllQUnJoGGPFdcd5Ajv1U481rBFybNPKzm8Ji9YiP2sEVn4QU_LqpW-DRDHnhNqPAFA7c0tTDRkjnAe1Bdx5OKkdPGwzctCRjbOZWt3IednEflwaThFwt-5zWJgnB_w&__tn__=*NK-R" role="link" style="border: 0px; 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font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important; font-size: 11.5pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">Thank you so much for subscribing, sharing, commenting and stopping by: </span><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif !important; font-size: 11.5pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">*</span></span></span></div></div></div><div class="cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; text-align: start; white-space: pre-wrap; word-wrap: break-word;"></div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline" style="text-align: start;" /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Please note that every picture taken on my blog belongs to me, unless otherwise stated. These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>FabulousPerkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01296342051055215748noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-56949786261198984672021-06-17T23:07:00.002-04:002021-06-18T00:13:11.602-04:00INHALE COURAGE EXHALE FEAR<div style="text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span></span><a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" style="text-align: left;" target="_blank">Melesia Robinson</a><span style="text-align: left;"> </span><span style="text-align: left;">is a Navy veteran, now self-taught couture designer based in New York City. She helps modern professional women who struggle to find unique fashion that reflects their personality with style and grace; to acquire custom fashionable garments that elevate their style and showcase their best assets. With six years of experience, an unyielding passion for fashion, and a sincere appreciation for the variance of women's bodies. Melesia is uniquely positioned to curate and deliver custom garments they won't want to take off. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7r1z72qNp-4/YMwcuSCNLqI/AAAAAAABQ_M/DstdlDL3ao8V922D4U7EPHxJL_pltZeMACLcBGAsYHQ/s1125/IMG_6080.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1102" data-original-width="1125" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7r1z72qNp-4/YMwcuSCNLqI/AAAAAAABQ_M/DstdlDL3ao8V922D4U7EPHxJL_pltZeMACLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_6080.jpg" /></a><span><a name='more'></a></span><span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4ErvL14SwcE/YMwGYU9psQI/AAAAAAABQ-c/njYsmRrLOgQaJLoezUfFNMv5t8AIz1EZQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/83146335_1028643594180637_3470028117093908480_n.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4ErvL14SwcE/YMwGYU9psQI/AAAAAAABQ-c/njYsmRrLOgQaJLoezUfFNMv5t8AIz1EZQCLcBGAsYHQ/w300-h400/83146335_1028643594180637_3470028117093908480_n.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia’s </a>unbeknownst fashion journey began in 2007 when she sketched her first gown to send her cousin off to her high school prom. This was a major turning point, which she failed to realize at the time. Her younger cousins always gave her creative control when it was time for their events. Since then, she has taken on various positions that weren't passion-driven, which ultimately led her back to the design world.<p></p><p>In 2008, she joined the military it didn't align with her soul. She was unhappy; she made the best of her four-year tour. Due to budgetary constraints, the military began downsizing and <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia </a>was one of the many selected to resign. This was a sure sign that not even a government job is secure. After leaving the military <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia</a> had no idea what life had in store for her. She didn't have a backup plan; she intended to serve for eight years, save as much money as she could to financially prepare herself to cease her enlistment. Unfortunately for her, this wasn’t a part of her calling. </p><p>In 2011, a week after transitioning from the military, she purchased a sewing machine and started a clothing boutique catering to women. She attempted to make a pencil skirt and failed horribly. She was discouraged and decided to put away her sewing machine in her storage unit. <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia</a> decided to focus on the wholesale to retail market. In 2012 she relocated to New Jersey, where her efforts led her to continue to market her brand via Instagram and make sales through her eCommerce website. With no knowledge of the business, <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia</a> labored through many long nights conducting research and filling orders. </p><p>In 2013, she became a new mom and was faced with a dilemma. The long nights were wearing thin on her. She could no longer sustain the business, sales started declining and so did her engagements on social media. She had to choose between her boutique and caring for her son. This was hard for Melesia because at the time she saw this as a failure. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mAM1n607d_o/YMwGzz818vI/AAAAAAABQ-s/8oZSq0gR8icD1kcdLoM31Z9JeWauJiR9QCLcBGAsYHQ/s1125/73539668_947448402300157_3307589928518418432_o.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1124" data-original-width="1125" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mAM1n607d_o/YMwGzz818vI/AAAAAAABQ-s/8oZSq0gR8icD1kcdLoM31Z9JeWauJiR9QCLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h400/73539668_947448402300157_3307589928518418432_o.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>In 2015, after her husband deployed, she got tired of sitting at home and wanted more than just being a mom. She had an urge to revamp her boutique, leading her to make connections with local fashion photographers and models. While feeding the flame inside of her she would set up photoshoots and collaborate with many photographers, models, makeup artists, and hairdressers as often as she could, still, this didn’t go where she hoped it would. She knew how talented she was and knew that she could do anything she put her mind to. After facing many redirections, she was led to get her sewing machine from her storage unit, this time she wasn’t going to stop until she constructed a wearable garment. She attempted to make a maxi skirt, not only did she make the skirt effortlessly she didn’t face the difficulties she did the first time she tried. She wore the skirt the following day, she received many compliments and a few requests for orders in which she declined. <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia </a>began creating pieces to shoot with local fashion photographers and models. This allowed her to enhance her skills and test out what she learned while building the confidence to be the designer she aspires to be.<p></p><p><br /></p><p>In 2016, a tragedy occurred in <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia’s</a> life, she suffered a miscarriage. A close friend and fellow shipmate gifted her a spa treatment to help uplift her spirits. During her spa session, she had an interestingly deep conversation with the masseuse. They talked about her love for creating garments and her aspirations as a couture designer. The masseuse connected <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia</a> with a local producer that was preparing for an upcoming fashion show. When <a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia</a> contacted the producer, she explained that she had all her designers booked for the show, but she didn’t mind adding Melesia’s brand to the list; it was faith. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qiq_nSn1jz0/YMwMVmlVGoI/AAAAAAABQ_E/1AL1wmF0VpgYL-EANmSLQ_tHawkgrx9KwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/14542511_10154733026115757_5446360861363990491_o.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" height="426" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qiq_nSn1jz0/YMwMVmlVGoI/AAAAAAABQ_E/1AL1wmF0VpgYL-EANmSLQ_tHawkgrx9KwCLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h426/14542511_10154733026115757_5446360861363990491_o.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p>The anticipation of her first runway show had her nervous and worried about what people would think of her work. Being a self-taught designer and a person who struggled with being a perfectionist, she felt she had so much to learn. She assumed her work at the time was far from what anyone would want to wear. She doubted her abilities, but this didn’t sway her from participating in the fashion show. She saw this as an opportunity to learn and grow. To her delight, the show was a success! She enjoyed the rush of being backstage while successfully directing her team. The scores of positive feedbacks from other designers, models, and the audience, left her overjoyed it fueled the fire inside of her to learn more about the fashion industry. </p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia</a> had hopes of attending a fashion design school, she thought this would help expand her skillset and further build confidence. After researching fashion design schools in her area, she had no luck, she felt stuck and disappointed. There was one school that stuck out to her, but not what she initially had in mind. After seeing all that she had accomplished in a short span without technical help, she thought maybe it was best to learn the business side of fashion. Her research led her to enroll in The Art Institute of Virginia Beach to pursue their Fashion Marketing and Management program. </p><p><br /></p><p>Melesia was nervous but committed to embarking on this new journey. To her surprise, all her classes required assignments and projects that consisted of public speaking. This was another hurdle for Melesia. She suffered from social anxieties and would occasionally have panic attacks that prevented her from participating in public speaking events, despite a growing demand for her to do so. Through creative coaching, encouragement, and sincere support from the students and staff, she was able to overcome this by turning her weakness into a strength. </p><p> </p><p>Melesia would also place herself in rooms where she was would be forced to grow, and fight through the daunting task of public speaking. She would attend unplanned networking events, seminars, and meetups. With high hopes of overcoming her fear of social settings and public speaking, she would also attend events that weren’t fashion-related, where she could view other dynamic speakers captivating audiences and add some of their techniques to her identity. Overcoming these fears was only a matter of time because Melesia’s determination is unmatched. </p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.melesiarobinson.com" target="_blank">Melesia</a> has then been published in Malvie, Pump, Element, and other international magazines. 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-84491833160814245302021-06-04T06:05:00.002-04:002021-06-05T17:10:36.489-04:00MANIFEST THE LIFE YOU WANT <div style="text-align: left;"><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xK_gKI42v2w/YLnq5-Ohh6I/AAAAAAABQ60/K-wZH_VR5Ok3ONtwFvp2pN9NyoPOSk6WgCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_8636.HEIC" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1356" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xK_gKI42v2w/YLnq5-Ohh6I/AAAAAAABQ60/K-wZH_VR5Ok3ONtwFvp2pN9NyoPOSk6WgCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_8636.HEIC" /></a></div><p></p><span><a name='more'></a></span><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I decided to share a few events from my day-to-day experiences. I hope you all enjoy these snippets. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">4/29</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I purchased my moldavite 3 days ago. Today I woke up feeling off, I was experiencing an itchy throat and some drainage. I took some NyQuil last night, it helped a little. It feels like I just need to ground myself and get some fresh air.</span><strong style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> </strong></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/1 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">My brother got jumped, he got into an altercation with his girlfriend, they were both very drunk. Some random guys saw that they were fussing at each other and decided to beat his butt up. The situation could have ended very badly. I'm grateful he made it home safe. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I woke up in so much pain, these back spasms are no joke. I didn't get to complete my dress the way I wanted to but I'm not stressing it. either way, sis is about to look so bomb.</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/3 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I started wearing my moldavite neckless. I cleaned it with rainwater. I claimed nothing but good energies. I'm expecting a winning lottery ticket or two. I'm ready to enter the billionaire club. I claimed other things too, but I'm holding myself accountable here. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/2 The first year my brother gave me a birthday gift. He's 27 years old and I only realized this because my mom was fussing him out about it. He doesn't owe me anything and I have no expectations when it comes to him. There is always something with him when it comes time to celebrate my birthday. I stop giving him gifts when I realized how selfish and self-centered he is, It normally takes a while for me to notice these types of behavior, because I always want to see the good in people. Overall, I had an amazing birthday as always. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZRtPlLVPeqY/YLnr6e9IecI/AAAAAAABQ68/x2KptuGx-bIyOm_fysN57CZF7SpUYIvdQCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_8892.HEIC" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZRtPlLVPeqY/YLnr6e9IecI/AAAAAAABQ68/x2KptuGx-bIyOm_fysN57CZF7SpUYIvdQCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_8892.HEIC" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">View from Equinox Hotel New York, NY</td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/5 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I got some unexpected money that took me to the goal that I wrote down at the beginning of the year. If you want it that bad write it down. It was amazing how it all manifested. I might actually go into details about this in a detailed post. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/9</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Happy Mother's Day! My dad texted me for Mother's Day we haven't spoken since my grandmother's transition. I almost convinced myself he texted me accidentally. Lol, after doing the math in my head I think it was intentional and I'm going to visit him so we can have a talk face to face. Also, the first year my brother gave me a gift of Mother's Day. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I notice my bedtime has changed drastically, I've been going to bed so late and my dreams aren't memorable, I used to get 2-3 downloads now it's just one or none that I can remember. I'm going to bed early tonight.</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/14 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Amazon sent me the wrong order. The gag is I got free products and got my original order the following day. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/16-17</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">There was an unexpected fallout between two people I'm really close with. I was caught in the middle trying to rekindling things, I was close to cursing both their asses out, lol. It helped me to realize the different values humans have when it comes to relationships. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/18 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I took my car in to get my wipers changed and one of my windows recalibrate. The dealers have these tents set up outside, I didn't want to sit under the tent, I wanted to sit under the shaded trees. They only had three chairs, one of which was occupied. I intended to set the kids up and go grab another chair. As I was approaching I engaged the lady with a smile and we talked about how beautiful it was outside and that I mentioned I wanted to join her under the tree, with covid and me having the kids she gracefully gave me the areas to chill and wait for the car. I was so grateful, she definitely didn't have to, but she did.</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/19 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I woke up so grateful for the blessings I've been receiving. It's such an amazing feeling. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I started my day early, it felt great. It's been a while since I've done this. Being in NY has thrown me off, but it's all good. I was so exhausted from the drive to VA and doing light housework. I went to bed as early as 5 pm the night before. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I then decided to run to food lion because we were out of bottled water. I decided to hit Walmart up because I needed fabric to create ready-to-wear pieces for myself. The young lady that helped me was so nice, we talked about how I got started. I showed her my work and she was so impressed that I taught myself all that I did. I ended up getting a little extra on the fabrics I purchased. I then went to food lion and paid it forward by paying for the young lady items who was behind me in line. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I stopped at dollar tree to get these glass containers for my fireworks scent boosters. So as we were in line this lady comes up and she randomly pointed out the glass in the ceiling. She was saying she was scared to stand in line because she didn't want any to fall out and break on her. I told her she shouldn't think like that and she snapped on me. I snapped back and told her she was ignorant. I got home and one of the containers I purchased broke. The moral of the story is you can't control shit, so why live in fear. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">This day was very dramatic. I cursed my mother's boyfriend out and told him he better not let me see him near her. Wild day. Lol </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/20</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I'm tempted to cancel all plans for Caesar's 8th Birthday. It's a story I'm not even going to get into. I took away his Ipad and tv privileges. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">My guides exposed someone to me, they turned out to be everything my gut feeling was telling me. Interestingly enough I thought I was comparing the person to other people I know and I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt. Nope, my gut was so right. Thank you guides!</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/21</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I've been ignoring my mother's phone calls. It feels strange that I haven't spoken to her, it's only been a day or so since we last spoke, but feels like forever. We always have some form of communication, she knows I'm upset so she didn't try reaching out. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/22</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Event #1</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I have the most amazing seven-and-a-half-year-old. I mean this kid has been doing all the right things. Lately, he's been irking every fiber of my being. He wakes up and jumps on TikTok and literally waits for me to tell him he needs to brush his teeth, get some breakfast, and get started with school. He has the same routine every day during the week. I couldn't understand the disconnect, my God's children came over. I had a discussion with their mom and then boom it hit me. I saw what the disconnect was, Caesar is starting to feel like he's being treated differently, I recalled moments where he would ask how comes Mari (his little brother) doesn't have to do such and such. I took away a few of his privileges and Saturday morning he turned a new leaf. I was surprised and excited about his efforts. Here is A list of things Caesar did without me asking </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">1. Brush his teeth and encouraged Mari to brush his </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">2. Made his bed </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">3. Open the blinds </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">4. Wash the Dishes </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5. Laundry </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">6. Take a shower </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">7. Play with Mari </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">He was full of many surprises, I think I broke the curse. Lol, </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Event #2 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I sent a hit out last night for my mother's boyfriend. Well, not the kind of hit you guys are thinking. What's funny is it backfired and affected my brother. I was in tears laughing at how frustrated the situation was for him. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/23</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I'm always grateful, I woke up and did my journaling, and meditated to start my day. I made lobster, waffles, and eggs for breakfast. It was amazing. Caesar is still on a rise, he's out here doing great things. I decided to clean the yard and take care of some house duties I've been pushing back. One of the duties consists of me setting up the camera in our garage. As I got finished Mari knocked over some mail we had sitting there. I spotted one that looked like a check, I ripped it open so fast and couldn't believe what I was seeing. It was indeed a check for $25. This was so dope to me, I had no idea where it came from or why. I've been manifesting unexpected money and it has been working for me. I was also manifesting luck, I've been feeling really lucky. I also found in the pile of mail a free face mask from a company I once purchased from, for my company. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Caesar started cooking dinner so I let him. I guided him and watched him work his magic, it was amazing. I've been feeling very stagnant and low on energy so I decided to burn the house out to remove all stagnant energy and call home my own energies. I burned the house out and As I was cleaning up I found my moldavite crystal that I misplaced a few days ago. I was filled with so much joy, I laughed at how it happened. I knew it would show right back up when I was ready for it.</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I noticed I haven't been dreaming much or I do not remember these journeys. It's strange because I typically dream every night, I'll have two-three different downloads. </span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LZShyKAQ54k/YLnuLm-SxQI/AAAAAAABQ7E/kty5l9lphm8LbXQ54T6V-xIhKOxAskRcwCLcBGAsYHQ/s3182/IMG_9624.heic" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="988" data-original-width="3182" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LZShyKAQ54k/YLnuLm-SxQI/AAAAAAABQ7E/kty5l9lphm8LbXQ54T6V-xIhKOxAskRcwCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_9624.heic" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/26 </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I know I'm not the same person I was a few seconds ago because I'm constantly evolving. Today I did something I never thought I would do. I stood in front of a classroom and talked about my journey. I've never felt more ready for a ted talk. Sis has been exercising her throat chakra, It was so liberating! Here's what I posted on Facebook.</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> “Everyone has a responsibility in this world, when you do your part you add value to those around you. A few months ago I never thought I would agree to do a speaking engagement. Public speaking didn't all of a sudden become my thing, it took a lot of work to overcome the fear of speaking. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I'm always grateful when I come into contact with people who genuinely believe in me and encourages me to continue to push towards my highest potential. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Thank you Teresa & Joy for your continued love and support. You've both added so much value to my journey.</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I had an amazing time sharing my journey with the current students. While gaining the confidence I need for my future Ted talk.” I'm so grateful and excited to learn more about this new and improved me. </span></p><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FE7Ht_S_HG4/YLnvEtUG2UI/AAAAAAABQ7M/ThAA2M7LSfUygaKXiFLEijCHA0EgI7YWQCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_2690.JPG"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FE7Ht_S_HG4/YLnvEtUG2UI/AAAAAAABQ7M/ThAA2M7LSfUygaKXiFLEijCHA0EgI7YWQCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_2690.JPG" /></a></div><br /><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/30</p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">I guess I am a lucky charm. How often does someone get approved twice for a car, with poor credit? How did this happen, you might be asking. It's a long story, but to make it short my brother made a terrible decision and screwed himself. I went with him a few weeks ago to get a car and the process was so easy. He had to do the entire process all over again and this time they were requiring so much more. With me being his lucky charms as he would say That's what I helped my brother with today. While helping him I kind of screwed myself over. I'm heading to Florida in a few days and I'm not prepared. That's what I was supposed to be doing. It was overall an amazing day. I'm so happy for my little brother. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5/31</p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Memorial Day and the day we laid my cousin to rest. This was also the day I decided to go visit my dad. 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-82822928302789833862021-05-04T13:37:00.005-04:002023-01-19T23:38:02.359-05:00HUMBLE PIE<p> </p><div style="text-align: center;"><span></span><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dqsDPT3KeRY/YH8pbune8WI/AAAAAAAA9CE/7xWiy1iLtUg3wBkOUnnHMXq4t5B_hTJPACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_1133.heic"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1396" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dqsDPT3KeRY/YH8pbune8WI/AAAAAAAA9CE/7xWiy1iLtUg3wBkOUnnHMXq4t5B_hTJPACLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_1133.heic" /></a><span><a name='more'></a></span></div><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Greetings Earthlings,</p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">I was lead to share with you all a few of my journal entries. I truly believe everything happens for a reason. I know these entries are going to reach those it is intended to. If it doesn't resonate it simply isn't for you and that's okay. Learn to run or walk with the things that touch your soul. When the idea came to me, I thought, wow! This is freaking genius. Most times, I struggle to find topics I want to talk about on here. I have all these thoughts that have been expressed, most will make a perfect blog entry. This entry is from earlier this year. </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Journal Entry: </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">I felt compelled to journal this am, it's been almost a month since my last entry. You would think life just decided to take a full-stop. (This was a thought that shouldn't have occurred, I learned that I am always inflow). I’m still here pushing and living the best version of my life experience. I’m more open to loving and divine connections, I look for the lessons and accept my blessings. I embrace my guides and my gifts. I had the most humbling experience last night. </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">My mom friend spent the night, let’s call her Ms. B. To be clear, I’ve always been the type of person that practices humility, I pride myself on being a very upstanding citizen. I realized how spoiled my mindset was. I also realize how easy it is to cast our own beliefs and emotions on others. It's interesting to me how the mind allows room for judgment that causes many other issues. When you are working on yourself, you see things differently. I try to see things from a light and a loving place.</p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">I needed this lesson to fully embrace and understand the art of judgment, contentment and simplicity. Ms.B came in and she asked for a sheet and blanket, laid it out on the floor, and went right to sleep, unbothered and unfazed af. My initial thoughts were why didn’t she go get a room at a hotel. I pride myself and speak so proudly on not sleeping on anyone’s floor and that pride is filled with nothing but egotistical energy. I speak so highly of it like this makes me better than anyone, was I intentionally proud of this, No. I realized how foolish this type of thinking was. Amid my thoughts rambling, my thought made several pivots. I started thinking of ways I could help to make Ms. B more comfortable and wishing my situation was different, to help her. But, who said she wasn’t comfortable having the space to be able to rest for the night? </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">I know she is very hardworking and she is currently employed. I questioned why was she choosing to lay on someone’s floor. Here I was pushing my ego, pride, and beliefs on Ms. B. All these tainted beliefs stemmed from a place of ignorance. This experience made me very grateful for the life that I’m living, It thought me that I needed to be more disciplined with my thoughts and actions. I was served a slice of humble pie. </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">I just went through a major transition, which I will create a later detailed post in another post and on my youtube channel. You'll know I can't give all the sauce all at once. Trust the process! </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">My situation isn't ideal and it could have been a lot worst. I needed to accept wholeheartedly this is exactly where I needed to be, I needed to find the lesson in my transition. I learned that I need to be comfortable and content in every season all while being grateful. People are going to think and assume what they want about you regardless of the choices you make. I am learning to live according to my will and no one else's. My journey is my journey. If I live my life based on people's beliefs and opinions, I am robbing someone of the opportunity Ms. B gave me. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LpapWcoCSXE/YJGF4u1IPKI/AAAAAAABBAg/XZ6g8k3xKwE7c1fdzZrR4Ir8HcnZTMs1ACLcBGAsYHQ/s500/7db6694618b3c53dfc51d30e6e9c22bd.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="500" data-original-width="500" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LpapWcoCSXE/YJGF4u1IPKI/AAAAAAABBAg/XZ6g8k3xKwE7c1fdzZrR4Ir8HcnZTMs1ACLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/7db6694618b3c53dfc51d30e6e9c22bd.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Each day I will challenge myself to remove judgmental thoughts and be extra conscientious about pushing my ego, beliefs, and pride on others. It isn’t fair to myself nor is it fair to others. Everyone’s journey isn’t going to look and feel like mine, who am I to judge anyone on their path, because it looks different from mine or because I’m not comfortable enough to accept what is comfortable to others. </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">I've been working on loving myself and being disciplined in different areas of my life and I needed to work on diversifying this in other areas. I read somewhere that "Discipline is one of the highest, if not the highest, form of self-love. It is quite literally telling yourself that you will delay instant gratification and comfort for better things to come in the future. Discipline is trusting yourself by doing what you said you were going to do. By aligning your actions to your thoughts. From thinking to doing, to being. True self-love is how you manage yourself in the face of adversity. What you are willing to do to create the version of yourself you admire the most. True self-love is hard. It is the hardest yet most rewarding thing you can ever do." I thought wow! This is powerful. A little off topic, I practiced my one year anniversary of being a pescatarian recently. It has definitely been a challenge, but also so very rewarding. I'll discuss this in another blog post.</p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">It's amazing to me how one scenario can change your life drastically. I needed to be here to experience what I did to process the mental aspects of it all. 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-30948096917947644902021-04-07T22:49:00.019-04:002021-05-04T14:29:39.110-04:00IT'S MY BLOGAVERSARY!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TWGTc1okZBY/YG4W6NRlguI/AAAAAAAA8_g/urtfnsw2C6YwZPkfhjxQf1l2cXH3uYFIQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1244/IMG_8187.jpeg" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1244" data-original-width="1074" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TWGTc1okZBY/YG4W6NRlguI/AAAAAAAA8_g/urtfnsw2C6YwZPkfhjxQf1l2cXH3uYFIQCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_8187.jpeg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dress by Melesia Robinson<br /></td></tr></tbody></table><span></span><span style="text-align: left;"><span></span><span></span><span><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span></span><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><br /></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Greetings Earthlings, WOW! It has been eight years since I started this blog. I wanted to do something extravagant to celebrate, but, eh, life happened. When I started this blog, I was pregnant with Caesar. I'm currently married with two children. Whew! Time sure flies when you are having fun or facing many obstacles. I'm so unprepared for this. I'm going to do my best to celebrate mentally and give you guys an update on my life. I'm not proud that I've been neglecting my blog. I honestly need to commit to something. Maybe even three post a year. I can't believe this is my first post for the year, sheesh! I'm a little embarrassed. Lol, I'm doing bad out here in these blogging streets. Not really, my number are high. All praised to the divine! </span><p></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Let's reflect on the last eight years and talk about some things I've learned. I might even share a few of my journal entries (wink, wink).</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">On Sunday, April 7, 2013, I decided to start this blog. I had no expectations. I initially wanted to document my journey as a new mom to be. I was a lot more consistent, I was in such a great space mentally. The supreme being was showing out. I was thrilled about the blessing that was unfolding. I wanted to share all this amazing energy with the world. I know, I've been sucking at it! The great news is if you follow me on Snapchat (@fabulousperks) and watch my </span><a class="editor-rtfLink" style="color: #4a6ee0; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;" target="_blank">Instagram</a><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> stories, I'm very active there. Let's kick things off with these journal entries and lessons.</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">LEARN TO FORGIVE:</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"> Journal Entry </span></p><p></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">"November 28, 2013, 08:00 AM My year! I have so much to give thanks for: I'm thankful for having a successful business and all my supportive friends and family. I'm thankful that every lesson I've had to learn was graceful. I'm thankful for the path I chose, the mistakes I've made, and most importantly the changes I've made. Today, I'm thankful for my baby boy. He completes me, he completed us. Ohh and of course I'm thankful for my mister lover, lover I give him a lot of props for dealing with my craziness (we all know I'm CRAZY). With that being said, I'm ready to enjoy the day with my family & friends while we stuff our faces."</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">This was my morning entry - to my surprise, my day didn't turn out so well. My mother-in-law said something so hurtful, I was ready to pack up and leave. I was never the type to stand for anyone's shit. I had to learn to forgive her so that I could have internal peace. I also understand that hurt people, hurt people. What she said to me was a reflection of the things she was going through. It wasn't fair of her to project her hurt on me, but I was an easy target then. Out of respect, I didn't say anything to her. I sat there and almost allowed what she said to eat at me. It wasn't until a few days or maybe even months later I told my husband. In life, you learn to forgive people for yourself, especially if you want to live a happy and peaceful life. It was a rocky relationship, but that's another story. I've had many more lessons on forgiveness, but this one was the first one in my journal. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">BELIEVE IT'S ALREADY WORKED OUT: </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Journal Entry</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">"December 14, 2013, 02:22 PM: Just when I thought being able to conceive was impossible. Without prayer, without belief, there would probably be no you. I'm so rich! I've got health, wealth, love, happiness, and a family to call my own"</span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: start;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Right before I found out we were expecting, my husband and I tried to conceive, after months and months of being disappointed. I decided I didn't want to try anymore. I started working out, I mean, I couldn't bear a child, so I might as well get fit. So, my outside wasn't reflecting the pain I felt inside. I would rise up daily and go running in our neighborhood. We would go out often for lunch and sometimes dinner. I recall we went out for lunch one week. I was disgusted with the food. I mean I was gagging at the thought. I started thinking maybe I should stop eating out. This was a sign that I should start cooking more. My husband suggested that I took a pregnancy test. I was so against it because I was afraid it would be negative. Plus, I had a doctor's appointment in a few weeks. I agreed to take the test. I ended up taking one right before bed, of course, it was negative. I was devastated! I hated him for persuading me to take the test. I was on my knees at our bedside, crying my eyes out. My husband then joined me, we prayed. I later found out I was indeed expecting at my appointment. You have to believe that the things you desire and pray for have already worked themselves out.</span></p></div><div style="text-align: left;"><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"></p></div><div style="text-align: left;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6hzN260-1_0/YG4eBX03NlI/AAAAAAAA8_s/S70o3TbmOa0u2MKcx6uC7H_C_lxDdt-zACLcBGAsYHQ/s1938/IMG_8189.jpeg" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1938" data-original-width="1125" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6hzN260-1_0/YG4eBX03NlI/AAAAAAAA8_s/S70o3TbmOa0u2MKcx6uC7H_C_lxDdt-zACLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_8189.jpeg" /></a></div><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">LEARN TO BE STILL: </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">In 2014 I was forced to close my boutique. It was too much for me. I was a new mom with no help. My husband was doing all that he could to help, but I needed more. I was having way too many late nights researching, packing orders, and doing so much more. I would be exhausted from being up all night and having to care for my newborn, all while learning how to do the whole parenting stuff. I had to pick a struggle. I choose to be the stress-free, attentive mother that my child needed. I later had regrets shutting the business down. I then realized that the divine had something remarkable for me. What I saw as a failure was a blessing. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">In 2016 after moving on divine timing, I was guided to get my sewing machine out of storage. Something told me don't stop until you can sew, to my surprise I made a skirt that day. Yay, me! I taught myself how to sew. Sewing was therapy for me. I love and enjoy doing it so much. I went from purchasing clothes from vendors to making my own. I wore the skirt I made the following day. I got so many compliments! I even got a few requests for orders, which I declined. I wasn't half as confident as I am now. I was having a proud moment, I found my passion! </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR GUIDES: </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">Your guides are your intuitions, dreams, visions, and the voice in your head. We are all spiritual beings, we are all magical af. 2018 taught me that God is within me, I am a Goddess! My awakening period started when I was at my lowest. I'll be sharing a video soon on how this started for me and how I see life differently. I spoke about a few of my experiences on my </span><a class="editor-rtfLink" style="color: #4a6ee0; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;" target="_blank">YouTube channel</a><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">, subscribe because I'll be sharing some more of my journey. I trust in the divine and divine timing. </span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="color: #0e101a; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZrYASWsqc94/YG5tjuYSqgI/AAAAAAAA8_0/mgVYlK4YX_Ivu7na9P4BS4EjfVaKs9u8wCLcBGAsYHQ/s1988/IMG_8186.jpeg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1988" data-original-width="1125" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZrYASWsqc94/YG5tjuYSqgI/AAAAAAAA8_0/mgVYlK4YX_Ivu7na9P4BS4EjfVaKs9u8wCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_8186.jpeg" /></a></div><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><u>10 Random facts about me </u></span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">1. I am the easiest person to make laugh.</span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">2. I'm a Veteran. </span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">3. I'm very picky and now an aspired vegan. </span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">4. I'm not the same person I was a few seconds ago.</span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">5. I have a healing spirit.</span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">6. I'm passionate about all that I do. </span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">7. I'm at peace! I won't stand for anyone disrupting my peace.</span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">8. I'm very selective with how I share my energy.</span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">9. I'm wealthy! </span></h2><h2 style="color: #0e101a; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">10. 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These photos should be credited and/or linked back to the original source. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357860594243796498.post-7474114050622932112020-09-14T17:42:00.003-04:002021-05-04T14:17:44.349-04:00HUDSON YARDS NEW YORK CITY <p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7wncUviSO-g/X1EEMeJw-bI/AAAAAAAA8UA/8Ws72bsqsZkFCja9O6ayRj6GKWBB8YxKwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/vessel_family.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1365" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7wncUviSO-g/X1EEMeJw-bI/AAAAAAAA8UA/8Ws72bsqsZkFCja9O6ayRj6GKWBB8YxKwCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/vessel_family.jpg" /></a></div><span><a name='more'></a></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Greetings Earthlings, </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Life has been so busy for me, I'm honestly not able to commit to updating as often as I would like to. I won't allow a few years go by like I did last time. I'm sure I can post at least once a month. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> I have been obsessed with the Hudson yards for over a year now. I daydream of the day I will own a penthouse in one of the many beautiful skyline buildings in the area. The area offers an amazing waterfront view, the vessel, and a shopping mall. The last time we were in New York, I desperately wanted to visit this very popular attraction in the area known as the vessel. The vessel is so beautiful, I see why it's a popular Instagramable location, of course, I had to have my Instagramable moment. Luckily for me, there was a photographer in the area who opted to take the image above and email it to me, God I love New York. Actually, I have a love-hate relationship with New York. I have such an amazing connection there, things flow to me easily and I connect with genuine energies. I've been considering moving back for a while, but as we all know the cost of living is very high. I believe that God will make a way, he always does. This is me confessing with my mouth and writing it down.</div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-NUmxlkPG2MM/X16MIJ1qIWI/AAAAAAAAatA/-AQysvo_FSY13fWkBh5Pw_QEjvhv96qdgCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/vessel_family.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1365" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-NUmxlkPG2MM/X16MIJ1qIWI/AAAAAAAAatA/-AQysvo_FSY13fWkBh5Pw_QEjvhv96qdgCLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/vessel_family.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photographer: Mr. Willie Bravo</td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">So before I go on rambling, the photographer that took the photo of my boys and I is Mr. Willie Bravo,(<a href="https://www.instagram.com/photos305usa/" target="_blank">Photos305usa</a> on Instagram). Make sure you guys and gals check him out. He's pretty amazing and I'm not just saying that. </div><p></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-WNVR7ixPJbs/X16ZwSTx_mI/AAAAAAAAatM/ClE_pxA4FtUHg9KmFwCMr26VZfcRqnn2ACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_2127.copy.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-WNVR7ixPJbs/X16ZwSTx_mI/AAAAAAAAatM/ClE_pxA4FtUHg9KmFwCMr26VZfcRqnn2ACLcBGAsYHQ/s16000/IMG_2127.copy.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Captured on iPhone</td></tr></tbody></table>There was so much I wanted to ramble about, but now that I'm writing this post two weeks later, my brain is drawing a blank.<div>Anywho, I'm hoping to move back to New York before the year ends. Hopefully, I'll win the Megamillion or the Powerball, maybe both, this would be perfect then I could move right into my dream penthouse. I've already selected the unit I want based on what they have available, with a visual image of what I would want the decor to look like. So dear God, I'm ready for the divine life I was sent here to live. I think its time! 2020 has been quite a year, I'm ready for my big break. Wishful thinking, we all know it would take more than a wish to become a reality. 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